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boav91 - 25 Nov, 2023 - 12:27AM

So for me it is like this. I have been approached by women on here saying if I pay for everything including their travel expenses at reasonable rates they may deem to meet. Sorry but then to me that is being a gold digger not a relationship. I dont want to negotiate a price to meet. There are some women on her to extort men. Maybe not on the chat but believe me they exist as much as the male players exist.

I am happy to pay if I feel I am not expected to pay. With the person I am seeing we share the costs and she wants to share, i did not ask. That made it more special as I did not feel exploited. I did not ask her to but she wants to. It makes it feel like a proper two way relationship where we are both committed. It feels equal and valued both ways.

I book the hotels as i can do it more discreetly but then we work out ways of transferring funds to make it fair. Both happy .

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Paula99 - 24 Nov, 2023 - 09:58PM

Guys have been paying for sex for centuries so why change the habit of a lifetime 😂😂

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1625265 - 22 Nov, 2023 - 03:36PM

Generally unless previously discussed and agreement for sharing costs in place I would assume the male pays.(if doing the booking). If the lady pays personally I would offer to share costs. As with everything communication is key. Champagne of course is all on the chap 🤣

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1625622 - 18 Nov, 2023 - 10:56PM

I have a simple take on this. If a lady has made the effort to meet you. With probable intent. Chosen an outfit. Possibly lingerie that appeals.. it is basic courtesy to cover the room, the champagne and everything else. After all the memories you want to create are special and out of the ordinary..

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Cheesypuff - 21 Oct, 2023 - 06:28PM

Lilmissy79 - 21 Oct, 2023 - 04:06PM

Luxurious? Sounds more like a rip off.
I'll make it rain for you my lovely, but maybe not in the way you're hoping for 💦

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Legs&Eyes - 21 Oct, 2023 - 04:31PM

Lilmissy79 - 21 Oct, 2023 - 04:06PM


Gotta be honest, when you say 'treated and spoilt if he was willing to pay to spend time with me...'

it isnt the word 'Luxurious' that springs to mind for me personally..... but each to their own... obviously.

Good luck.

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Lilmissy79 - 21 Oct, 2023 - 04:06PM

I’m here to be treated differently.
At home I’m a 50% provider. More dominant. In control.

I prefer an old school gentleman who likes traditional roles …. yet that’s just me. I’d always offer to split it yet would feel more desirable, treated and spoilt if he was willing to pay to spend time with me …

Kinda luxurious isn’t it don’t you think??

I’ve had one f’buddy and I’d stay over at the hotel so pay for my own room , stay with him a couple of times , or just fuck and go .. depending what I needed from him that day

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Paula99 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 05:39PM

Cheesypuff…

You’re my favourite snack
So welcome back 😁

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1601870 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 01:59PM

50:50. Then when it’s over , no one can say they owe anyone anything. £35 a time. What’s to lose ?

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1408586 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 12:10PM

I think Cheesypuff summarised my thoughts perfectly 😂

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