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EmnEm123 - 10 Oct, 2024 - 03:00PM

Tstopman

That's the hubble, bubble, toil and trouble brigade? Crew? Wait, it's actually a cackle.

The judgment from certain women who like to accuse other women of being men when something they disagree with has been posted.

The judgment from certain women who have several profiles but can't seem to see the desperation in that.

And as you said, they're on a cheat site themselves.

People in glass houses......! 🍹

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Tstopman - 10 Oct, 2024 - 09:27AM

Firstly, the poster asked advice about hotels. Dayuse is excellent, rooms generally available 10am to 5pm or thereabouts, other websites are available!
Secondly, wow! Some of you are so judgmental….where do you get off labelling people as desperate for doing what feels right for them. You do you and let others do them. Most of you are cheating on your other halves so keep your judgement to yourself!

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AthenaSings - 05 Oct, 2024 - 12:01PM

Appreciate you being so welcoming Paula and Pink Eiga et al ❤️

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Paula99 - 04 Oct, 2024 - 05:43PM

Athena sings…

For young woman you certainly have your head screwed on …welcome to the forum 👋

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AthenaSings - 04 Oct, 2024 - 01:43PM

That’s a fair point, it definitely comes down to an individual by individual basis. And the partner in that moment too.

My experience of ONS are extremely limited to a night or two of seeing someone out and enough intoxication to think yeah ok! So I rate it as unfulfilling at best! Given the nature of such an encounter for me at least, it is over and done too fast to instruct on what you like! I have a long screening phase before I meet someone by design, and with that there’s enough attraction, understanding and investment for it to have worked thus far

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Paula99 - 04 Oct, 2024 - 01:03PM

In fairness to all of us …if you have slept with your affair on the first date ….as you have spoken for months …then that is your business and how you conduct it has got nothing to do with anyone..

In my experience that scenario has not worked because it doesn’t matter how long you have chatted and have your date then in the cold light of day he/she may get the guilts and decide it’s not for them( which of course we are all entitled to a ‘wobble’….many on IE have done this …so this leaves you with lots of ‘ ONS ‘ …which in turn doesn’t do a thing for your welfare or mental health..

Nothing is ever black and white …🤔

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Pink Eiga - 04 Oct, 2024 - 12:54PM

AthenaSings,

Some babes are wise beyond their years. You sing beautifully well, and yes, as long as due diligence is performed, we do us 😊

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AthenaSings - 04 Oct, 2024 - 12:26PM

And in tandem, don’t think it’s fair to tar those who sleep with someone on a first date as desperate. Maybe they’ve spoken for months, that’s all they’re there for or just can’t resist the temptation when it’s right in front of them. As long as it’s consensual, legal, and no one is harmed in the process I say you do you!

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AthenaSings - 04 Oct, 2024 - 12:14PM

Dear Emnem,

My entire stance on this has been live and let live without judgement and preferably without feeding into an outdated oversimplification of women. I’m sorry that that offends you enough to attack my age. Not sorry for my sentiments, but that you fail to recognise support for a group that you belong to. Whilst I too could reach down to a low hanging proverb on age, instead I’ll leave you with a bible verse on wisdom coming from the mouth of babes, and hope that you find more than you may believe you deserve.

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ClassyLady77 - 04 Oct, 2024 - 10:23AM

@Enigma spot on… I never have sex first meet.. Those that do obviously are desperate and have no respect for themselves or their partners..

Dayuse hotels are an affairs best friend.. I don’t pay for hotels that’s a man’s job, I spend my money on lingerie instead… 😉