Casual?
I'm wary of profiles that say they are looking for 'casual'. My interpretation of 'casual' is seeing someone once in a blue moon, no relationship external of a bedroom, and being messaged whenever they feel they need sex. Sometimes you read the rest of a profile and they are looking for one person and want a meaningful affair. What gives?
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Here we go 693 - 04 Jul, 2025 - 08:16AM
DC
Absolutely, I don't want to be running around to someone else's schedule and I wouldn't expect them to do it for me. Whilst I take it that people don't want another relationship, but that's exactly what it is! It's different from the one you have with your spouse, but a relationship non the less.
Seductive Scott - 04 Jul, 2025 - 07:49AM
My understanding was casual meant occasional, no major commitment but regular, I didn’t think this would mean ONS.
Paula99 - 04 Jul, 2025 - 05:22AM
DC….
Your post is right on the nail…some operate in that way and it is all one sided ….if there is no effort by both sides then walk away …😑
GolfBeachBeer - 03 Jul, 2025 - 08:13PM
Gonna say from my point of view, pretty sure there are a million different ones lol
When I say casual Im personally saying I dont want another relationship with all the stress of doing things that need to be done rather than one I want to put that extra effort in!
Not having to make sure you send a message, rather WANTING to send that message. Not stressing about having to meet up but WANTING to meet up and being stupid excited about the meets.
But thats just me :D
Delicious Chaos - 03 Jul, 2025 - 06:43PM
I definitely steer clear of those that put casual ad what they are looking for.
Most recently I was chatting to a profile in the morning and by the afternoon I was meeting him for drinks as I happened to be in town and not that far from him.
I didn’t really take much notice of his profile, I was meeting him that day so I was like let’s just see what this guy was like. Yes there was chemistry and yes we went on to do a couple more dates but yep his looking for was casual, for him that meant meet when it suits him, meet where it suits him yada yada…
Lesson learnt for me, read the profile and stay away from casual unless you’re quite happy to be doing all the work
DefinitelyMightBe - 03 Jul, 2025 - 03:47PM
A male supper model would need to be very careful if cooking naked, nothing worse than a burnt sausage.
Paula99 - 03 Jul, 2025 - 02:59PM
I don’t mind a bit of supper model ….if he’s willing to cook me some food and serve it naked 😂
Clumsybuttons - 03 Jul, 2025 - 02:28PM
I think there will always be varying interpretations of what words mean. And there will always be some profiles that are disingenuous about their wants and their intent.
I don't think you can ever know until you talk and ask the right questions.
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Enigma.. - 03 Jul, 2025 - 02:28PM
@Winetime
Well I suppose supper models will be a hell of a lot more interesting than super models… lol.
They’ll probably spend less time looking at themselves in a mirror, have a higher IQ and have more stimulating conversation 😃😉.
Another plus would be they will actually order something tasty and edible off the menu instead of ordering plain tuna, chicken, rice and or vegetables 😉😂.
Ps…. Rest assured there are no super models on this site.
Mind you… there are some who think they are but… (no further comment) 🙄🤷🏼♀️😉😏.
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