What do we really disclose?
Meeting a new person is always exciting. However most of us are meeting illicitly. What are your boundaries when disclosing personal details? Do we reveal our full names, places of work, give details about our family? What type of information are you willing to share? How much is too much?
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Londonstories - 29 Oct, 2023 - 09:07AM
To be honest, the level of disclosure depends on the connection you have with someone. In this community, many women will ask you upfront about your occupation and residence as a way to assess your character.
On the other hand, there are some who may request your password and, if they don't like what they see, they'll disappear without acknowledging the interaction. It's ironic because they claim to be kind and sensible. 😂😂
Based on my experiences, I've learned to be cautious about revealing too much initially. However, once a genuine connection is established, I have no issue sharing my situation and information. Honesty brings stability, and truth instills confidence in both parties involved.😊
I hope everyone will get what they are seeking.
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ExoticOrchid - 29 Oct, 2023 - 08:32AM
P41 - 01:11AM
If someone knows your name, where you live and what you do that's pretty all they need to find out ALL about you/your life in this day and age therefore how does that "protect" you though? 🤔
1629944 - 29 Oct, 2023 - 01:11AM
If we click, and if we are scheduling a meeting, he will know my name, where I live and what I do, but nothing to much as still want to protect myself
1622807 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 06:37PM
I used to think that OPSEC (operational security) in affairs was akin to that of a witness protection programme, aliases and all. However given that personal safety for women is very real in this domain, and that STI results may be exchanged breaches in OPSEC are often necessary,
There is no hard and fast rule, just common sense. But it must always be acknowledged that the more details you give out the greater the likelihood of getting caught - and you never really know who someone is until they're really tested!
mipaulac - 24 Oct, 2023 - 12:42AM
You've got to have a incredibly good memory if you completely lie. Facts quickly fall out of place when you get to know someone causing duplicious doubts come to mind.
Cheesypuff - 22 Oct, 2023 - 06:57PM
I enjoy declothing more than disclosing.
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Life is a beach - 21 Oct, 2023 - 11:58PM
Initially be cautious. Find more as you are in contact with each other, build trust, trust your gut and only share all if you feel you can trust that special person. If your gut tells you not to trust them, listen to it!
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Jays199 - 21 Oct, 2023 - 11:23PM
I’m new here, but hoping most of the answers are being honest as you can, without risking others, those you know and those you hope to.
Although role-play, is a wonderful thing.
1620851 - 21 Oct, 2023 - 05:13PM
Always be honest, what’s the point in lying? It creates mistrust when trust should be top priority in what we are doing but having said that, no one needs to know anything too personal right off the bat and if things develop you can disclose as much as you want, but just don’t lie.
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