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1671533 - 06 Sep, 2024 - 11:22AM

I’ve just had a bad experience. Thought I would share, hoping admin let this comment through. I had a woman chat with me, asked for my PW and then wanted to connect in Google chat. I set up a random email, started a chat, and within 10 mins she shared a video of all the activity, threatening to send it to family and friends. I’ve reported her to IE, but I sensed something was up when she asked me to send more photos etc It’s completely put me off this site. Be safe.

Toffee.macchiato4 - 03 Jul, 2024 - 07:55PM

Hi all
Love this thread
So I thought I’d bump it up 🙂

Please keep the comments flowing
Interesting thread 👍 for sure

1508839 - 16 Jun, 2024 - 09:12AM

red flag
when someone asks to go to email before they know you properly

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SomeGuyOrOther - 16 Jun, 2024 - 08:23AM

Both sexes play games. The worst offenders are usually the ones who put 'not here to play games' on their profile. You get better at spotting time wasters after a while tho.

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Life is a beach - 16 Jun, 2024 - 12:50AM

ClassyLady77,
Exactly! It doesn't take a minute for someone to contact you!
It's a massive red flag if you are chatting to someone you are meant to meet and they don't share a photo.
How can you go on a blind date?! It could be quasimodo 😅
Don't trust anyone who is not prepared to send you a picture before your first meeting!

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ClassyLady77 - 14 Jun, 2024 - 12:48PM

This is why when men disappear I move on… if they do come back I don’t give second chances.. I’m not here to play games..

I find men always say same excuses. Doesn’t take long to send a message and can be done when you’re in the bathroom. Where there’s a will is always a way!

What’s annoying me ATM is men to scared to show their photos even after we’ve chatted for a while. One m man expected me to meet him without even seeing a pic…If your not prepared to show your face then how can you even expect to have a affair.. 🤦‍♀️

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Life is a beach - 14 Jun, 2024 - 12:29PM

SheDevil,
It' can be very difficult, especially when they go ages without contacting you, and then all of the sudden they come back with excuses and tell you they really like you.
In the end it makes you wonder how many people they are doing the same to.
We sometimes do give more opportunities than we should.
A quick message doesn't take long, just to see how you are. A person who goes days without being in touch doesn't care about you. They only care about themselves.
He didn't deserve you. You deserve far better than him.

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1660660 - 12 Jun, 2024 - 11:29PM

EmnEm123 - 12 Jun, 2024 - 10:29PM

The lovely Dionne. 🎶🎵
Almost as good as me on karaoke🤣

Pink Eiga - 12 Jun, 2024 - 10:51PM

EmnEm123 - 12 Jun, 2024 - 07:28PM

But of course 😁

EmnEm123 - 12 Jun, 2024 - 10:29PM

Gunther73

The answer to your question is...... Alfie.

Get it?