Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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Black Gent - 15 Jul, 2025 - 06:51AM
I think it is something else. perhaps try rewording your profile. I have never checked out the men's profiles but if they are like the women's many will be dull and generic. I actually enjoy putting a bomb or two into my profile just to chase away the dopey.
ClassyLadySurrey - 08 Jul, 2025 - 11:40AM
ALWAYS Be open and honest… It’s lacking on here…
I think what maybe putting some women off is some men say they’re In open relationships when really they’re not…
Sammy2608 - 07 Jul, 2025 - 11:04PM
Not at all it's open and honest
Would you and your wife not be open to threesome ect where your both involved
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87athleticbrown7size - 05 Jul, 2025 - 06:11PM
Nothing wrong in mentioning it. It's a numbers game anyway. Men outnumber women.
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Petrificus Totalus - 05 Jul, 2025 - 09:04AM
Well..well.. Transparency is wise but framing is everything. If you lead with “married, open” you risk sounding like a side quest not the main event. Highlight who you are, what makes you irresistible, and let the open status be context not the headline. And your wife’s inbox? Just a reminder that online dating algorithms still play favourites.😏
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GolfBeachBeer - 02 Jul, 2025 - 12:16AM
Having only recently joined I feel like the women's profiles I've seen that join are either 100% sure of what they want or are very unhappy and unsure what they want.
Gonna have to follow this one as its very interesting looking to see what women are looking for to be honest.
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Paula99 - 01 Jul, 2025 - 02:55PM
Growing up I found more guys were too picky and if the role had reversed then you get what you deserve …
Simple …
1795842 - 01 Jul, 2025 - 02:18PM
Women are a lot more picky than men. Which is fair. Maybe add some more interesting things about yourself to your profile
Westlad 222 - 01 Jul, 2025 - 09:23AM
Say nothing just make things complicated
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Need the escape sometimes - 28 Jun, 2025 - 03:37PM
It wouldn’t put me off, in fact I think it’s best to be honest with your affair.
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