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Here we go 693 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 11:34PM

B69

You would think so on the face of it. But then again some people seem to fatally short circuit their chances in some way or other....

Bukowski69 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 10:57PM

It is a fascinating thread and question, as we are all here to find someone that likes us. I assume so ?

Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2025 - 10:04AM

@Cheryl Kim
Good point.
Some people who post on these threads certainly don’t do themselves any favours.
My usual style of posting is with humour and it’s usually very tongue in cheek.
Most people get the point of Flirt Forum but unfortunately there are those who don’t 🤷🏼‍♀️
I suspect that the silent majority do not comment because they don’t wish to get involved.

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Paula99 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 09:49AM

It’s important we get the ‘silent majority’ to feel comfortable to have some input …and not feel like they have entered a war zone ….😂

Nice post CK ….

Cheryl Kim - 02 Jun, 2025 - 09:36AM

Tbf the arguments do add a bit of spice to the forum. We also have to think that the silent majority read but do not comment. Our aim here is to get an IE - do our comments on the forum help our cause, or diminish our chances?

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Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2025 - 09:11AM

@tmn2024

I give up..
I’m not trying to gag anyone 🤷🏼‍♀️.
I’m not dictating what anyone should post or not post… liked I posted, MORE THAN ONCE, every is entitled to their own opinions.
I’m not in anyway entitled to take over these threads 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣.
The only person who seems to be misunderstanding my posts is you!!
These forums are for everyone not just me!! 🤷🏼‍♀️😂.

All I was trying to do was be helpful to other members 🤷🏼‍♀️.
But since you seem to have the inability to understand and interpret what I’m saying let’s just leave there.

@Paula99

Your post has hit the nail on the head.
Some people on these threads seem to have an ability to misinterpret and misunderstand what others are posting.
Attention seeking is becoming “The thang” lol 😂.
Boy… I miss the old FF days 🫤.

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tmn2024 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 08:42AM

Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2025 - 08:19AM

Part 2.

You can be certain that if there is anything illegal or disallowed on here, the forum mods simply will not allow the post. So I mustn't be breaking any rules if they're making my posts visible.

I hope you now are very clear on precisely what my issue is. Do not try to gag or sensor me, and do not try to claim these forums as if they were your own private property where you can dictate what does and doesn't get said.

You're not the only one either by they way. In fact to be honest, the things you say are quite mild when compared to the sometimes quite vicious broad side attacks mounted by others.

tmn2024 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 08:38AM

Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2025 - 08:19AM

My dear, you've just done it again.

This is all getting ridiculous now and frankly I'm beginning to feel embarrassed. What follows will be my last post on the matter. Not even sure why I'm doing it but I am.

You seem in such pain to point out how some of us are not using these forums in the way you believe they should be used. You also repeatedly stated that your posts are being misunderstood. Seemingly I'm not the person you're referring to who keeps misunderstanding your posts, as you said that you didn't want me to get the wrong end of the stick......but really?? Come on, who are you trying to kid here. You ARE referring to me.

I am going to make my point - again - and I'll try to keep it as short and punchy as I can:-

My problem is with fellow forum users coming on here trying to tell me what I can and cannot post. It's that simple, and that's all I have a problem with.

End of part 1.

Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2025 - 08:19AM

@tmn2024

Part 2…
Nobody wants to read argumentative, negative, rude and disrespectful posts.
Not that I’m saying that about you… I certainly wouldn’t want you to get the wrong end of the stick.
Don’t bother replying to my posts…

Let’s face it ladies and gentlemen there are some on here, wither deliberate or not, who seem to be in the habit of misunderstanding and misinterpreting other members posts.

These threads used to be fun, friendly, full of good banter and wit.
Now… (insert a few appropriate words).

I usually post with humour but… 😒.

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Enigma.. - 02 Jun, 2025 - 07:51AM

@tmn2024

I’ll keep this simple because, I hate to post this, but it very obviously has to be 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️.
Flirt Forum is for members to offer their opinions on the original question being asked wither they agree or disagree with what other members are posting and their opinions.
Thus leading to “discussions”.
Flirt Forum is here to help other members by offering advice, when asked for, and by sharing experiences… both good and bad.
But some members seem to have missed the whole point of Flirt Forum.
I suspect that the majority of members who post, on a fairly regular basis and actually understand what has been posted, are now getting fed up with those who seem to misunderstand and misinterpret said posts.
You have totally misunderstood what I have posted…
That’s the biggest problem on Flirt Forum some members misunderstanding what is being posted and getting all defensive and argumentative when other members try and be helpful and point this out to them 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️�

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