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SpicyAsian - 08 Nov, 2023 - 12:53PM

Hi All,

It does get easier, for me just actually getting on the site being a Pakistani lady was a huge first step and you do meet some very nice people on this site and obviously some idiots along the way, all part of the fun.

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Paula99 - 08 Nov, 2023 - 11:58AM

Madworld…

I like to think my M & S knickers are good all rounders ..

😂😂😂

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Funandfrolicks45 - 08 Nov, 2023 - 11:51AM

Hi ,from my point of view it does get easier once you've taken the first step, don't think about it too much be very careful (watch your phone notifications!) and have some wicked fun along the way 😁X

ExoticOrchid - 08 Nov, 2023 - 10:44AM

MW - 12:07AM

Don't forget Lidl ... great fresh bakery 🍞🥐🥖🥨🥯

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ExoticOrchid - 08 Nov, 2023 - 10:39AM

L&E - 10:34AM

That made me laugh!
(gotta aim high ... I'm going for F&M 😉)

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Legs&Eyes - 08 Nov, 2023 - 10:34AM

Mad World - 08 Nov, 2023 - 12:07AM

I'm sure your potential IE is gonna love seeing you referring to them as Aldi when you have Waitrose at home!!!

Haha......

#I.Am.At.Least.An.M&S

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Legs&Eyes - 08 Nov, 2023 - 10:31AM

shy_lady - 07 Nov, 2023 - 11:46PM

Welcome Shy!
Agree with P99, look at some other ladies profiles and consider what you are saying in your own profile.

I'm not sure a potential IE will be attracted to so much information about your intimacy with your husband - and him knowing you are here, almost granting you 'permission'.. I could be wrong, I think some men may not initially be drawn to the suggestion they meet your husband either....

Focus on what YOU want from your IE, how it works for you, what they should know about YOU (rather than your husband)... And maybe consider changing the age range - you refer to retired types but have an age range from 21+.. who is it you hope to attract?

You'll get lots of contact but try and hang back as P99 says - get a feel for lots of chats until you feel more comfortable... And come here to the forum, even just to read - it massively helps and add balance to your headspace! It does for me!

Only my personal view of course!

Lots of luck....

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Paula99 - 08 Nov, 2023 - 06:29AM

Shy_lady

If you are new to this …then it’s exciting and adrenaline fuelled but you must think about what you are about to embark on …
Your safety is paramount and you don’t need to put so much detail in your profile about your other half….😕
If you decide to meet a genuine guy then you can reveal as much or as little as needed ..
Get a feel for this place and chat to lots of guys …read the flirt forum ….there are several ladies/guys on here that really offer great advice from experience
State your boundaries from the beginning and don’t let anyone out any pressure on you ….if you don’t like what the guys are saying/asking …go with your gut feelings …us ladies have a sixth sense so use it ..

Good luck ❤️😁

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Mad World - 08 Nov, 2023 - 12:07AM

It’s a bit like going to Waitrose and Aldi
The more you go to Aldi, the most you feel cheated having shopped in Waitrose.

Same thing - gets easier as you go. And there’s nothing wrong with Aldi …

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1632580 - 07 Nov, 2023 - 11:46PM

I'm in the same boat ... feeling petrafried, curious, guilty and embarrassed all at the same time. I big like an innocent schoolgirl about to go on her very first prom!

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