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Mad World - 08 Aug, 2022 - 12:24PM

It’s a little like filling tax returns every year and leaving subtle bits out each time to avoid paying tax.NB - tax evasion is illegal , avoidance isn’t.
You know it’s morally wrong but carry on doing it.
And with each benefit received, you learn to look over the morally wrong bit and crack on with the rest.

Long way of saying Yes

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Paula99 - 08 Aug, 2022 - 11:44AM

The first time I did it...I couldn't wait to get out of there..I drove home in record time..and wished I hadn't done it...I deleted my profile and never looked again until 3/4 months passed..

I felt like I was gonna burn in hell..☹️

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1309354 - 06 Aug, 2020 - 09:18AM

Yes it gets easier

ChilledChap - 05 Aug, 2020 - 06:48PM

I only did it the one... it was enough to make me realise that what I had thought was an okay marriage was actually a very controlled and manipulated situation,l. After 25 years I left and never looked back.
I guess you don’t really have a sense of what life, love and relationships have to offer until you’ve seen more of the world.

1400963 - 05 Aug, 2020 - 06:36PM

It’s fine just don’t fall in love....

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1401561 - 05 Aug, 2020 - 03:44PM

I'm also new to this, 19 year relationship got boring, lockdown made me realise we are more like brother and sister now. Just want a bit of excitement

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1386735 - 13 Jun, 2020 - 08:00AM

A lot of newbies here, bored during lockdown me thinks!

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Danny16 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 11:24PM

Wish it would because I dont know how to make things possible on here. Never done dating sites and would love some excitement in life for a change lol

RolandA80 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 10:24AM

From an attached male point of you who has had a 2 year relationship with someone from here (finished a while ago) Yes. it does get easier as long as you ensure that you keep your two lives separate. An affair gets better the longer it lasts as you become more familiar with each other - both on a cerebral and an intimate level. My affair had to end for various reasons. But home life remained the same throughout. I guess I am lucky in that my work allows me daytime meets which suited both of us as our spouses worked office hours. An afternoon or morning of passion was easy to arrange.

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Walnuts - 11 Jun, 2020 - 11:22PM

In my experience doing it is easy. The question is can you live with the guilt afterwards. I can, but others can’t. I think you’ll only ever know once you’ve tried...

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