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1117169 - 14 May, 2020 - 07:52AM

@Classylady 77

You do men a great disservice. Men don't have affairs just to have sex with someone new.

There is a far more cost effective and completely risk free way of getting that with 100% certainty twice a month with a new lady every time for the same outlay as being a member on here.

Most men have affairs for exactly the same reasons as women, and most men find the idea of paying for it directly very unpalatable, other than as a last resort if they are desperate. I would be very surprised if there are any men on here who are doing it just for sex, or for that matter, just to chat.

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Best Route - 14 May, 2020 - 12:40AM

@Nearwildheaven

If he doing it too, good for him!!
Like @lushlips1978 has said
"Two can play this game that game"

1382700 - 13 May, 2020 - 11:38PM

@ Best Route

I imagine he does know and his infidelity was probably not a one off. I’m guessing you’re both at it

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Best Route - 13 May, 2020 - 11:01PM

Also don't know if anyone can relate, but my affairs life, my secret life is my freedom...
It's that part of me full of good stuff and very little baggage. Easy to get addicted to

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Best Route - 13 May, 2020 - 10:58PM

After 10 years being faithful and only knowing one man in my life... I started because I was cheated on, forgave but couldn't forget... so after years of throwing stones I decided to get a glass house...
But now, a few years after my first affair and a few other... it is just because I can, and enjoy it!
Maybe a basic "good girl gone bad"... nevertheless life at home is actually better at all fronts.

Funny enough my husband says if a woman want she can cheat on you more than you cheat on her... little does he know 🤷🏻‍♀️😇🤣

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1365230 - 13 May, 2020 - 09:54PM

Thank you for everyone’s comments
I am taking notes 😊

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1334304 - 13 May, 2020 - 09:49PM

@ Sportster1200L

Safe maybe, but vanilla, Groundhog Day, predictable?... not me! I’m sure you have your reasons for being on here and I’ve mentioned mine in all honesty - it’s my opinion to my situation, not right or wrong 😘

1376072 - 13 May, 2020 - 09:43PM

People looking for change after so many years together and I think that’s why they do and challenging x

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Emily34love - 13 May, 2020 - 08:42PM

ClassyLady77, similar situation here, sending you massive hugs xoxox

Teresa di Vicenzo - 13 May, 2020 - 08:02PM

@Sportster1200L - I can only speak from the female perspective, or rather THIS female’s perspective. It goes without saying that women are just as willing and able to cheat on their other halves as the man.

On reflection, from my standpoint, I want to add that I’m doing it because I enjoy it. Shamefully it’s become an addiction. I was faithful in my marriage for over 25 years. To my knowledge I’ve never been cheated on. But the marriage was / is tricky. I don’t want to whinge too much, but I decided I wanted things to change, but I didn’t want my life to change. So I embarked on my first. It was good! That was about 5 years ago and I’ve had a few IEs since then. I’ve got a wonderful IE now, who I’m missing greatly with this lockdown shit. I bet I’ll be sniffing a replacement when this one goes pear-shaped. I think I’m addicted. I should know better at my age ..

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