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Why do we want to have an affair?

Why men cheat VS why women cheat... discuss!

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ExoticOrchid - 13 May, 2020 - 07:48PM

Lockdownguy76 - 13 May, 2020 - 07:31PM
"not sure how authentic it is"

It is authentic … well, many here are.



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1384851 - 13 May, 2020 - 07:31PM

Not always about the sex classy lady. I actually prefer someone that I have a laugh woth and friendship/ company. Although brand new to this site so not sure how authentic it is

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ClassyLady77 - 13 May, 2020 - 07:27PM

I was faithful for years then one day something snapped and I had enough.. being married to the tightest man in London was getting me down...


I could either get depressed or have fun..... I choose fun...

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ClassyLady77 - 13 May, 2020 - 07:24PM

Easy..

Men cheat for sex only..

Women cheat for the intimacy, romance. Social side.. we’ll I do anyway... 😇

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gemini2310 - 13 May, 2020 - 06:59PM

Both cheat for the same reason some men say they are very happy at home and the sex is amazing.If I felt like that I would not want or need to cheat I would have all in life I needed and wanted

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1383770 - 13 May, 2020 - 06:19PM

Who's up for fun


1350989 - 13 May, 2020 - 05:25PM

After being cheated on myself 🤷🏻‍♀️I though two can play that game, when you have the same bloke every night day In day out you get a bit stagnant, spice of life so spice it up I did .... no regrets doing it either. Just wish my ie was a bit more often , but that said he’s not mine lol

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1382700 - 13 May, 2020 - 05:15PM

My wife cheated some years ago and it ended our marriage. To this day she has never explained why she did it and certainly not why she chose to do it with her best friends husband.
I was a good sad and (I thought) a pretty good husband but she didn’t care. So in that example it was pure selfishness.
I cheated out of pure revenge but again that was totally selfish.
However which way you cut it or try to justify it both men and women are selfish and greedy

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Geek0808 - 13 May, 2020 - 05:06PM

Adrenaline you get from it & meeting new people. Appreciate spoiling others

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MatureWorcsBBW - 13 May, 2020 - 04:45PM

I've always wondered about whether both of you are effectively having affairs but neither of you are aware of the other person's activities.

Or maybe you suspect, yet it comes as something of a relief and takes the pressure off that side of a committed relationship.

I know of women who have said that the husband thinks she's frigid because they have no sex, but she's been having affairs for years.

I guess nobody really knows what goes on when you're not together.

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