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Paula99 - 24 Oct, 2023 - 07:12PM

Cheating is cheating …

Whether you want to label it as

Filling a void ?

Or any other bloody excuse in the book ….🙄

SubBrat - 24 Oct, 2023 - 06:57PM

I think it differs with each person and doesn’t bend to gender. I cheat because I’m a submissive kitten who needs a Dominant man to take control and allow me to empty my mind. My husband is vanilla. That’s the only reason I go elsewhere. However, to me cheating is dirty and slimy. What I do is fall head over heels and create a fantasy world where we can create our own hedonistic dynamic. Not cheating. Just filling a void.

WitchyLady - 24 Oct, 2023 - 10:39AM

For me it’s because I’m lacking emotional respect at home… I want the thrill of someone who actually wants to see me

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1408586 - 24 Oct, 2023 - 10:29AM

Similar to Sandypops I think. I have affairs to have a lover and a friend. Both the physical and mental connection are important to me. If there is no mental connection or intimacy I wouldn’t consider him a lover just a fuck buddy. And I don’t want one of those (been there done that, sex doesn’t compare)

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Sandypops - 24 Oct, 2023 - 02:47AM

I can't comment on why men cheat and why women cheat. I can only say why I do. And I'm not bothered by the word 'cheat' we can polish and tie a bow on it and call it what we want. It is what it is and each and every one of us has our own reasons for seeking another person to be intimate with, in whatever way we choose.
I can have sex at home, I can have intimacy at home but I choose not to. I don't want those things with my husband for many reasons. So I came on ie to hopefully find a mental and physical connection where we both want intimacy with each other. I'm searching for that man who desires me, seduces my mind as well as my body, satisfies me both sexually and by keeping my mind engaged even when we aren't physically together. I get bored very easily I've found. And in return I will give him what he needs and wants.
Just gotta find him now 😂

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Andrea Andrew - 24 Oct, 2023 - 12:30AM

To be with that extra special person…..!

Monicas55 - 23 Oct, 2023 - 11:20PM

To find love

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Monicas55 - 22 Oct, 2023 - 08:41AM

I do this to find what I am looking for in a partner

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Monicas55 - 22 Oct, 2023 - 08:41AM

I do this to find what I am looking for in a partner

1630140 - 20 Oct, 2023 - 09:43AM

Only ever been with my wife, we met young and that was it. I felt a change a couple of years ago, (circumstances, don’t need to go into) and I keep thinking about it. I do believe everyone has at least one opportunity to decide if they want to go down that road but I dunno if I’ve missed one because I honestly wouldn’t know of someone was interested, even if they had a neon sign around their neck.😂

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