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Naughty in NW - 16 Oct, 2023 - 10:23PM

Elderlytony

Good for you for having the balls to join this site at your age. Of course chronological age often doesn't match physical, emotional and sexual energy and appetite. I really hope that you find the right lady for you!

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1625309 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 08:09PM

I’m very elderly and widowed. I still have a very high sex drive and have attracted several interesting and encouraging ladies on here who are all very understanding though we haven’t yet met. What I would like is to get to know someone so we can have both a mental and physical connection. I like and miss female company, like being with women, to talk, enjoy things like a nice meal or a glass or three of wine, and of course intimacy whether just a literal kiss and cuddle or leading on to more. For me it’s the whole thing - enjoying female company.

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Ela Doove - 16 Oct, 2023 - 06:09PM

I have certainly lost the emotional feeling. The intimacy was bland. And I now know that I'm not one for being tied down.

Qpp755 - 15 Oct, 2023 - 09:50PM

I can’t speak for anyone else…..I cheat because I’m lonely, I miss physical intimacy. I don’t feel particularly great about it but we have a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ unspoken policy in play :-)

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FluffyClouds - 14 Oct, 2023 - 01:02PM

It could be for any number of reasons, doesn't even need to be one reason. There's something missing, something being neglected whether it be emotionally, sexually or both. It either cannot be addressed or has been addressed and got you nowhere. The thought of having potentially years and years of the same with no change isn't something some of us can accept.

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Zeewillis - 14 Oct, 2023 - 12:27AM

To gain what we are missing in the day to day humdrum

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Paula99 - 13 Oct, 2023 - 07:40AM

Couldn’t agree more! 🧼🧽🧴🫧

Paula99 - 13 Oct, 2023 - 07:40AM

Whatever you call this ‘ cheating ‘ ..’unfaithful’ or ‘ needs not being met’ clearly there is something missing.

However we ‘rub soap in this’…it all means the same thing unfortunately…

Do our needs ever get met ?…either way we are never completely happy…..sometimes we are searching for ‘ our perfect affair ‘ ?

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1408586 - 12 Oct, 2023 - 09:06PM

I also agree Boudicca

And Somniata agree too. Although I find intimacy develops over time. I ignore the sex focused/nsa messages but I like to start with attraction and chemistry, add in the sex then finally let the intimacy build naturally

Somniata - 12 Oct, 2023 - 08:42PM

Boudicca - I am with you. I don't like the word cheat and you are right when you say it's about "unmet needs". As others have also pointed out, the need isn't always sex. Whenever someone messages me talking about sex ONLY that's the end of that conversation. There are thousands of people here so there's no need to compromise. If you are looking for just sex, good for you, I'm sure you'll find like-minded people. I want intimacy and a meeting of minds not just genitals. Because I'm quite unequivocal about what I want, I've found my match and it's been amazing.

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