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ClassyLady77 - 09 Oct, 2021 - 04:55PM

That’s easy Men just want sex and women want a bit more than that…. 🤪.

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Imneverg - 09 Oct, 2021 - 04:38PM

I'm board at home. So I'm here to meet new people. I've had some very nice chats to lady's that are too far away to actually meet, but it is very nice to chat to them. But I'm here to find a lady to have a special connection with. And to put the spring back into my step.

1340024 - 09 Oct, 2021 - 02:56PM

Sex is very important & I also enjoy the company of a lady and I am not getting it at home that why I am here !!!

1480766 - 09 Oct, 2021 - 01:48PM

We all have our reasons and it should be respected. I'm now a carer for my wife and our relationship has changed since we got married.
Does this make me a bad person I don't know but all I seek is having a connection with a woman again, whether that's just a good laugh with a drink or something more intimate only time will tell

Rundyran464 - 09 Oct, 2021 - 12:39PM

I am in a very similar situation to the person who wrote the last comment. I am happily married except for the fact that my wife has absolutely no interest in sex anymore. That on top of a strong libido does makes me permanently frustrated.Now having hit 70, it’s only in the last few years, well since I was 62 that I seriously considering cheating. I met someone on IE over 3 years ago with whom I did have an affair and indeed still keep in touch with but now rarely meet. In the past I have had several contacts through IE and also met another lady apart from the one mentioned. However this time I have been on for 7 weeks with nothing of note happening So age and location not working for me this time.

bigal448 - 09 Oct, 2021 - 11:59AM

At my age and after a sexless marriage for the last ten years, the thought of having a womans body next to mine, naked, and who has the same desires and needs as me, is a vision I cannot escape from. However my age seems to be a barrier now, sadly.
Anyone have any suggestions about cracking that hurdle?

MrApollo - 09 Oct, 2021 - 11:17AM

Simple! Good memories of old times. Like to feel alive again, feel something different, give something new. Just like that

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Clangerb1505 - 04 Oct, 2021 - 04:07PM

I have to agree with Valkari.. as we grow older these things happen.. I have a similar scenario. It’s society and convention that brings us here. If you both used to love a sport (say squash) and one of you didn’t want to play any more.. totally uninterested… but the other wanted to keep playing.. I’m most relationships that would be fine.. everyone is happy! Life goes on! But swap the word squash for sex.. both of you have no sex just because one doesn’t want to.. go figure .. it makes no sense.. it’s more damaging to a relationship in my opinion.. causes resentment etc.. I’m totally happy with my life apart from one thing that I need, that I must have.. but the ‘rules’ say I cannot.. life is very confusing isn’t it?

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Valkari - 29 Sep, 2021 - 01:13AM

I can only speak for myself, I love my husband but we are no longer intimate and I really miss sex, I can't get that aspect of my marriage at home so I have to look elsewhere if I don't want to be celibate for the rest of my life!!

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Maverick99 - 28 Sep, 2021 - 10:18AM

It's (desire for affairs) related to our attachment styles picked up in childhood, mostly! Would anyone think this way?

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