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Cold feet

Does anyone get cold feet after arranging a meet? how do you deal with it..? I am serious about meeting someone just worried I will mess up and get caught

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1117169 - 19 May, 2020 - 03:12PM

@TwoBitCoins

Agreed.

If you have exchanged photos and like what you see, otherwise seem compatible , have mutual free time and the logistics seem feasible , the next step is to agree to meet on a low key basis, ideally after a voice conversation.

If you haven't established or done the above and agreed a time and place for your first date within the first 20 or so messages / the first week of chatting ( Your mileage may vary) its unlikely to happen and you should politely move on and don't look back.

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Friendandlover12 - 19 May, 2020 - 02:56PM

All at a social distance, of course!

When do you remove PPE mask!?


TwoBitCoins - 19 May, 2020 - 02:25PM

Cold feet is normal but it is better to meet early on if you think you are interested, endless chat is just an excuse.

Meet in a public place, enjoy a meeting, chat , a drink - and you will either click and continue or not and all you have done is spent a pleasant hour chatting.

What is the problem?

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Secretmeeting - 18 May, 2020 - 10:08PM

100% have felt this way, it’s natural to worry I think


1323236 - 18 May, 2020 - 12:27PM

I have being on receiving end couple of times. If you are changed your mind, just be honest about it and do not leave me standing waiting for you as you are deleting your profile.

Remember, if presumption is the mother of all fuckups than lack of communication will be the father.

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1366769 - 18 May, 2020 - 12:02PM

It’s normal to get cold feet but it would be silly not to. That’s why is good to chat, take your time, as this is two way street. No pressure and please no drama. Xx


ExoticOrchid - 17 May, 2020 - 05:18PM

Cliff Booth - 17 May, 2020 - 03:49PM

Well in that case …


Cliff Booth - 17 May, 2020 - 03:49PM

EO
Shw did say she liked a Yorkie ...

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ExoticOrchid - 17 May, 2020 - 03:39PM

Natstar - 17 May, 2020 - 09:43AM
Cliff Booth - 17 May, 2020 - 03:35PM

Best of the "worst" excuses … did make me laugh though I'm sure you didn't find it at all funny at the time!

As for high winds … perhaps she drives a high sided vehicle? ;-)

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Cliff Booth - 17 May, 2020 - 03:35PM

I once had someone cancel as high winds were forecast ...

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