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Only With You - 17 May, 2020 - 09:04PM

don't overthink it, just chat and see where it goes, if it's there's s connection the conversation will flow easily

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Thumos - 17 May, 2020 - 08:57PM

It might help to have a much around what the 'Pick Up Community' suggests.

There is a huuuge amount of nonsense in that arena, and it is mainly aimed at the younger man, so take it all with a pinch of salt. Having said that, a great deal is based on Evolutionary Biology, so does make sense.

If I could give just one tip, it's that you are older and more mature now, so are the women in your 'target group'. They are better equipped to spot BS, and won't be as shy as a younger woman about calling you out for it.

Also depends on what you are seeking in a 'special friend'. If it's an 'exclusive' arrangement (respective marriages notwithstanding) then you can probably expect her to want you to woo and chase her a little (but not in a creepy way). If you're looking for polyamorous relationships (again, respective marriages notwithstanding), then generally, you can probably be a bit more direct.

Thumos - 17 May, 2020 - 08:46PM

@classylady77

"ask her what her favourite sex position is.. without even a hello "

Hello, I love you, won't you tell me your name...

(For those of us old enough to remember that Doors classic!)

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AA1RON - 17 May, 2020 - 08:00PM

Hi everyone,
I hope you are all well, enjoying the lovely sunshine whilst keeping safe aka Stay Alert. My response to Dating tips & some comments. I would say from my own experience, I agree that this iscompletely different & there are no such tips. In line with earlier comments just be yourself with a cautionary only reveal what you are comfortable sharing including images and information. I say this because anyone can create a free profile pretending to be anyone they like. Believe me I've had my fare share of random messages from male & female profileswith pics that they wouldn't post to their parentsoremployers
It's very difficult to find someone real let alone nice. I guess this is due to a spike in new members especially now in the peak of the lockdown. Don't get me wrong there are some lovely people here and the fake are spoiling it for the rest.Secondly, in my own experience more recently some are misusing free female ids which isn't fair on members spending hundreds!

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Isthisforreal - 17 May, 2020 - 06:26PM

Well be yourself and when the you meet the right one, then flirting skills will flow.

1353301 - 17 May, 2020 - 06:11PM

Just be yourself dont be pushy and have a laugh , and things will lead from there

gemini2310 - 17 May, 2020 - 05:51PM

Just be yourself you will be fine takes time to find the right one and you will it's like riding a bike it will all come back to you

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ExoticOrchid - 17 May, 2020 - 05:16PM

Teresa di Vicenzo - 17 May, 2020 - 04:57PM

That made me laugh … me neither and no, I don't want any either …

1334304 - 17 May, 2020 - 05:08PM

Oh this is a tough one as I’d say you have to have that natural confidence/flirtatious nature to be on somewhere like here? Be comfortable with what you have to offer, coupled with good wit and I’m sure there will be a perfect lady for you!😉

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 17 May, 2020 - 04:57PM

I’ have to say I’ve never received any dick pics. I don’t really want any, I’m just sayin ..

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