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Sussanahversary - 17 May, 2020 - 11:29AM

Just be yourself! Seriously, that's all you can do, the right person comes along they will like you for you.

Some people are terrible at flirting, so don't even worry about that, just strike up a conversation and enjoy getting to know someone, if the person is right for you things will simply click into place, good luck!

jonsouth2020 - 17 May, 2020 - 11:13AM

Many women (and the ones I go for) prefer to be called a woman not a lady and certainly not girl.

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Bugwithone - 17 May, 2020 - 10:01AM

With any skill you have neglected, you just have to relearn it! The best way is to get on with it and with each failure you gain knowledge of what not to do next time!
Even then, what some people find endearing, others will find annoying! So whatever you do, someone will think you are an idiot!
So my advise... be yourselves, then you can find out who you were never going to be compatible with from the very start! So allowing both parties to move to someone that they would be perfect for!

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1328172 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:40AM

Make sure your profile isn't generic and make sure it clearly states what you want ,so many timewasters on here who like the idea of an affair but not ok to go through with it. I'm done with talking!

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1366769 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:32AM

Definitely be yourself, but also remember, this is not Im seeking for the love of my life site or someone to run into sunset together (although Im sure there are people on here that are after that). Majority of people on here are after that extra part that is missing in their life. Just be yourself and you might dont know what you are fully after, but if you know what you dont want, its a great start. Have fun!

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1346339 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:19AM

I can tell you what not to say as an opening line.

‘Another fake profile! You must be one of those Eastern European girls’

Be yourself. Flirty. Honest.

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1117169 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:18AM

@realworld

Just try to meet sooner rather than later doing something light and fun and try to relax.

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1117169 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:16AM

Just be yourself, don't be judgemental, have an open mind, be positive, keep it light and fun to start with doing"Normal" things you both enjoy. Be patient.

Whilst you make take the initiative ( And most ladies want the man to do that) your lady will decide if its going further and will set the pace if it is going to get physical.

On the other hand, if your chosen lady is very upfront and forthright about what she wants and it suits you just go with the flow, but don't be a " Dormat" at her control.

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realworld2 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:11AM

Genuine nice guy who prefers face to face conversation over endless messages. How do you get over that hurdle to show what I’m all about.