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ExoticOrchid - 17 May, 2020 - 01:46PM

ClassyLady77 - 17 May, 2020 - 12:15PM

Indeed … men on IE seem to think that because we are on this site, it is OK to ask those kind of questions from the start!

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 17 May, 2020 - 01:25PM

I would say, have a good profile on here. Consider what you put about yourself and imagine your potential IE partner in crime reading it. So check your grammar, spelling and your choice of words.
At your first meet (whenever that might be ..), dress nicely, smell nice, Polish your shoes. Be friendly and very courteous. Offer to pay the bill. If she’s nice she’ll refuse and go halves, but never suggest she go halves. That’s a no-no. Walk her to her car, shake her hand, or if it’s gone ok, kiss her cheek. Tell her you’ll text later, and do so, telling her you enjoyed her company. Discuss the likelihood of a future meet.
One thing though is more important than all of that, DO NOT BE A TWAT. Thank me later 😊

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CroydonCentaur - 17 May, 2020 - 01:20PM

But Teicu,

What if someone asks for one nicely?... 👀

851951 - 17 May, 2020 - 12:49PM

Oh and don’t send a dick pic.....ever!

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ClassyLady77 - 17 May, 2020 - 12:15PM

Be a gentleman. Also talk to women as you would do, if you met them in a bar..

Would you go up to a random women and ask her what her favourite sex position is.. without even a hello 😂 🤦‍♀️

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HotChoco - 17 May, 2020 - 12:08PM

Be a proper gentleman. Relax and be yourself.

Doesn’t need to have excellent flirting skills.

All you need to bring is : lots of sense-of-humour

Make her laugh and both of you will be at ease and comfortable. Talk about interesting stuff... Do not share your problems especially on the first date. She might feel the pressure what advise to give. Keep it cool.

Engage. Be attentive.

Goodluck

And off you go 😁

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1272141 - 17 May, 2020 - 12:05PM

Yes its a different dialogue and interchange for arranging an affair. At times quite detailed and it can get a bit clinical.

As you say you will have to learn.

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CroydonCentaur - 17 May, 2020 - 11:42AM

Sportster has it right:
Be confident,
and so does Cheekylady365,
This is NOT the site for everlasting love or romance etc
This is a forum for chemistry, fireworks, and a more basic instinct,
Make lots of eye contact, be interested in what your Illicit Encounter is saying, and be interesting.
Who are you both, why are you both special, and interesting.
Look Crisp, Smell great,
And, of course,
Be good in bed....

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ExoticOrchid - 17 May, 2020 - 11:38AM

As has been said by others here, just be yourself … don't worry about fancy chat up lines or trying to be someone you are not … don't go changing your personality … you want someone who will like you just as you are.

All the best!

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Someone To Love - 17 May, 2020 - 11:33AM

You can't force flirting, that has to come naturally

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