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MatureWorcsBBW - 19 May, 2020 - 05:57PM

Ladies - DON'T insist on watching Coronation Street (or any other soap) whilst with your lover.

Gentlemen - DON'T insist on watching the football (or any other sporting/car event) whilst with your lover.

Surely the time that you spend together is about the both of you only and not silly real world distractions.

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Lightmyfire936 - 19 May, 2020 - 05:15PM

Being able to stay overnight is a definite advantage. You get to know each other better and you get more great sex too. Afternoon meets tend to become just about sex which is great for a few months but then...

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1382603 - 19 May, 2020 - 05:12PM

Money and MI5 level training in subterfuge? ;-)

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1338297 - 19 May, 2020 - 05:02PM

Sexsy1xxx Spot on!!! 😘

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1353301 - 19 May, 2020 - 04:10PM

The secret is once you find your secret IE
You come off the site !!

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Kismet - 19 May, 2020 - 03:58PM

I don't think there is a secret, it either lasts long or it doesn't lol

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Macali76 - 19 May, 2020 - 03:40PM

I believe after having a long affair that the following are important (not from IE)

Respect each others situation and treat each other with respect
Enjoy the time you have together
Have an open mind
Have contact with each other when you are apart
Dont take things too seriously and be adventurous
Build memories
Be good friends even after the affair ends
End on a good note

Just some of my thoughts,

Hope all are well.and stay safe

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BucksMan72 - 19 May, 2020 - 03:28PM

Don’t be mental!

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1375097 - 19 May, 2020 - 03:25PM

So true because often boredom at home isn’t due to just lack of sex but lack of intellectual discussion.

I’m fed up with my other half being more interested in Coronation Street than the politics because they control the real world in which we live and not Ken Barlow’s latest bit on the side.

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 19 May, 2020 - 03:16PM

I think it’s luck. If you manage to find a good one you’re very lucky. But what makes a good one? Well that’s different for everyone.

I’d say for most of us it’s giving and receiving whats lacking at home; wonderful physical contact; sex must be awesome so the physical attraction has to be strong. There must be a great connection of minds, and overall brilliant chemistry. Good conversations are a must, and regular text contact in between those physical meetings are high on my list.

Perverse as it sounds, being on here, but loyalty and honesty with each other is essential too. I may add to this later ..!

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