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MatureWorcsBBW - 24 May, 2020 - 05:06AM

There is sometimes a tendency to tell people what you think they want to hear.
I would imagine that it happens here just as much as elsewhere.

I'm not going to pretend to be monogamous with anyone who is still living with their current partner, whether they have sex with them or not. And that's because they're still committed to them, just without the sex, in many cases, it appears.

I'm certainly not prepared to offer monogamy to anyone who is clearly committed in any way to their current lifelong partner. And who has seemingly proven that monogamy hasn't worked for them. It seems foolish, for me.

Nor do I feel compelled to change how I feel by lying about being monogamous or by being monogamous.

And I don't see why safe sex cannot be practised in the same way as it is with just the one partner.

I certainly won't presume to tell anyone else how they should behave nor would I expect anyone to tell me how to behave either.
Thankfully we're all very different, we'll all find someone who resp

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AA1RON - 23 May, 2020 - 11:57PM

Hi everyone,

Well I must say I've thought about this and I'm not that advanced or in the IE elite club. Definitely not to bedhop and get extra notches.
For me I keep well away from the Mrs and I've never ever cheated on my IE.

One nicely matched IE who was physically appealing, beautiful, and we really hit it off and connected well was worth a hundred IEs. I"d walk around smiling..

Hygiene and increased risk in get caught or slipping up is a chance some IEs are willing to take.. Not me I'm a loyal and honest IE.. One at a time..

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gemini2310 - 23 May, 2020 - 11:16PM

I only have the time or inclination for one IE and that's very hard to work around with my job but where there's a will there's away

gemini2310 - 23 May, 2020 - 11:16PM

I only have the time or inclination for one IE and that's very hard to work around with my job but where there's a will there's away

1376887 - 23 May, 2020 - 11:12PM

I would only look for one IE at a time, I wouldn’t have the time or energy for more than that. It’s about a mental connection as well as a physical one.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 23 May, 2020 - 10:38PM

It's easy enough to build up a good and trusting regular friendship with more than one IE and for it to be fulfilling and respected by everyone involved.

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Levi444 - 23 May, 2020 - 10:34PM

I was always faithful to my previous partner and now I’m looking for someone long term as my previous partner moved on

1382828 - 23 May, 2020 - 10:18PM

Just the one special friend, and the trust comes when you both wish to give it a go. So yes I would be monogamous with my IE. You know when someone is into you so only fair to give them a chance and for you to be in return. But then some may think differently and have different motives. I am sure they can be seen a mile off..

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Fromthestart - 23 May, 2020 - 09:41PM

Songbird478 -

When does an IE become your IE? When you’ve chatted for X amount of days? When you’ve met? When you’ve had sex?

This is something that I've wondered about too.
I have the right to ask for my IE to be monogamous with me?
However I've spoken to one IE who was horrified that I was talking to other men as well as him even though we had only been talking for less than a day. Am i expected to only talk to one man at a time?

As for a sexual relationship with my spouse I wish there was but that side going is what made me come here

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Levi444 - 23 May, 2020 - 09:17PM

Always good to have 1 partner

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