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1389224 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 02:07PM

I never expect the lady to pay ,depends how you are brought up I suppose and financial status

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NaughtyRyan1980 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 01:54PM

A Dayuse hotel is relatively cheap anyway!!! Pay for the hotel, a bedside picnic and perhaps a saucy toy for you both to use..
Always best to have a naughty ‘affair Credit card’ Just for those occasions where you’re unable to pay in cash..

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1334304 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 01:48PM

I haven’t paid as yet due to the men I’ve dated not wanting to go halves with me. So I guess that’s all I’m used to....

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1388461 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 01:45PM

I am old school and have always paid the bills though I have been with a couple of ladies that insisted on paying half of the cost.
But if it is regular meets and a room has to be booked every time the costs can mount up rather quickly.

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Funny Man Can - 04 Jun, 2020 - 01:44PM

I think you should be able to decide between yourselves. But ultimately, it's more chivalrous to pay as a man

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Scorpion_kiss - 04 Jun, 2020 - 01:00PM

It's the company and the time together that matters than the nitty-gritty of who is paying.Have paid most of the time and would prefer it that way but if lady insists then would split the cost than letting her pay.

1371388 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 12:44PM

I’ve always paid so far but if a woman wanted to share the cost or take turns I wouldn’t argue if that made her happy

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tea_coffee_me_ - 04 Jun, 2020 - 12:40PM

"sumfun20 - I am always away in a hotel on business when I play, but I always pay for meals drinks etc as I'm a bit old fashioned like that and always hold the door open for a lady. "

Yes that has been the case too.
They are in this town due to business so the company has paid for the hotel.
Depending on how expenses are paid, they often have our meals covered too.

The way things worked in the past, I had subsidised THEIR affair!

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1389532 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 12:37PM

I’m old skool so would happily foot the bill.. It’s not very gentleman like to make the woman pay 🙂

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1117169 - 04 Jun, 2020 - 11:47AM

@Lisaxoxo

If your guy makes you feel like or treats you like an unpaid sex worker you are with the wrong man.

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