Did anybody else...
Did anybody else join IE because their partner cheated on them first? Originally I was bitter and mad, and wanted to get some sort of secret revenge. But now I kind of get it, the whole affair thing. I almost feel cheated that I had stayed faithful for 17 years, oh well, they do say that life begins in your 40's 😝
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1575033 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 11:34AM
No, joined years ago, returning now, simply a good but serious sexless marriage.
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1629647 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 11:00AM
Nope...think my husband is still faithful to this day, which does make me feel a bit bad sometimes. But I know what I am doing and it's my choice to be here x
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1400267 - 30 Aug, 2020 - 10:28AM
He didn't exactly cheat first, but I felt as if he did... my husband loves watching porn and never comes to me for sex. He rejected me every time... My marriage became sexless. So I met another guy without telling him...
Afew months later my husband told me that he'd spent a hell amount of mony to have sex with someone (for only 15 minutes he said!) and he felt bad about it!
If I didn't cheat first I'd have been crushed!
MatureWorcsBBW - 01 Aug, 2020 - 11:39PM
Yes.
What's good for the goose....
I don't feel guilt or shame just elation.
Life is good.
blodynpert - 01 Aug, 2020 - 11:10PM
I came on here to find my husband. Found him and then stayed on!
pkash78 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 04:13PM
My wife cheated on me 3 years ago .. but I haven’t been here for revenge.. we went for a period of counselling. But then everything broke doen again.. because of indifference mainly. .. she became cold.. I became indifferent .. life is busy.. and loads of other things just drifted us apart.. then I realised .. that may be monogamy isn’t the solution.. and we only do it to satisfy facade of society / family / finance under the institution of marriage.. and finally after sometime, I stumbled on IE.. which is great to find a community who understands..
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1386735 - 23 Jun, 2020 - 04:10PM
Unityman
Seriously, that’s not cheating! I think you’re living in cuckoo land
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