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1352755 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 03:20PM

We all have a type we secretly crave😛
However... I’ve met guys who are so not my type yet so fanciable ?!?
Personally is a big one for me too.
Good humour , kind, intelligent and interesting , it’s not all about sex for me. It’s the full affair thing I enjoy .
Plus if he can fuck me all night , gives the best oral ever , kiss me lots and holds me tight!
I’m smitten
AND ... I’m delighted to say
I’ve currently got one just like that at the moment 😊

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1409258 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 12:59PM

personally i think its down to physical attraction with the ladies, im no george cloony but everytime ive given my password it's end of conversation, personallity suerly has a big part to do with it, how can you have an affair with someone without personality?

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Dejavous - 18 Sep, 2020 - 12:27PM

The right combination will ebb and flow depending on the relationship. Let's face it men and women have different perspectives on all these things and getting the right match is like picking the lock on a safe; but if you get it right Bingo!

ExoticOrchid - 18 Sep, 2020 - 12:14PM

Roger1999 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 11:44AM
Th3on3 - 16 Aug, 2020 - 07:20PM

Agree it is not good manners to go silent after giving someone your password but I have to say many of the men here are guilty of that too.

I have always said this and will say it again ... both sexes are guilty of bad manners.

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Roger1999 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 11:44AM

@Th3on3

I have said elsewhere that people can be so fickle and sometimes would like to know what picture they have in their head of whi they are looking for..George Clooney probably lol.
I know i have shared password and had silence or even sometimes a polite no thanks, even before any conversation has taken place. 🤔

Ive also been lucky and met the perfect person for me and we had a great 12 months, so it can happen.

Southwestbbw - 18 Sep, 2020 - 10:17AM

Mutual attraction, same sense of humour and lust for life! If he’s sub then it’s a perfect match!

Ha1234 - 18 Sep, 2020 - 09:43AM

@Th3on3

I think part of the explanation has to do with the human need to see. They just want to see...and not really had any intentions of going any further. Also I doubt that women would be as attracted by a picture as a man may be. So probably not a reflection on you....hope you succeed eventually.

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Th3on3 - 16 Aug, 2020 - 07:20PM

Anyone suggesting that looks aren’t key is talking pants. After four weeks on here why has there been such low interest. I’ve chatted which has led to password requests that has led to pure silence.
I don’t class myself as thick or ugly or intelligent and handsome. But I have been judged in that way by viewers of my pic.

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1266637 - 16 Aug, 2020 - 06:51PM

Every profile Iv ever read , that says I prefer chemistry Brains humour over looks , has asked for password in first message , come on let’s not lie here first look is always what pulls someone in , in normal dating you’d see someone at a bar and think , oh yes I like the look , you would never go oh I bet they have a nice personality , that comes after , that’s the chemistry bit that makes you come back , and yes there can be very good looking vacuous people , and people who shine with their persona .

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1392752 - 27 Jul, 2020 - 04:19PM

For me mutual attraction is the no1 priority. You can talk for hours on here and strike up a great “chemistry” with someone but if you just don’t fancy them then I don’t see how an affair can actually work regardless of all the other things that can then follow. For that reason, I always like to get the password bit out of the way early on. I find it saves time and actually leads to less disappointment.

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