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1187108 - 27 Jul, 2020 - 02:42PM

Very interesting reading ladies - you're much much physically focused than I'd expected

I'd put attitude first, looks quite a long way behind, imagination is the best aphrodisiac as several of you have said

Is 'chemistry' a shorthand for 'I don't know, but I'll know it when I see it'?

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PR_man - 26 Jul, 2020 - 11:15PM

The chemistry should be right, the geography convenient. The laws of physics can be tested, and biology explored.

978931 - 20 Jul, 2020 - 08:48PM

There needs to be that initial spark, something that just peaks my interest...good humour, intelligence and an ability to communicate! (we aren't mind readers 😏) really turns me on in mind and body. The brain is our biggest sex organ afterall!

Bugwithone - 19 Jul, 2020 - 08:47AM

When there is no Pandemic on... helps a lot in getting things moving!

KatieO - 19 Jul, 2020 - 08:32AM

Honesty in an affair is really important, a bit hypercritical given the circumstances but it’s key. Obviously chemistry is a must x

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1311261 - 19 Jul, 2020 - 12:10AM

For me - and my IE - it’s a great intellectual connection, friendship, trust, fun and laughter and of course sizzling physical chemistry.

1265724 - 17 Jul, 2020 - 11:15PM

I think in order to have a sizzling hot affair you need to connect intellectually and passionately. Just being able to “talk” isn’t enough. Most of us hVe that kind of platonic connection with our partner. So for me intellectual excitement and stimulation, along with a shared likeminded feeling of passion makes an IE a lasting one XX

1360266 - 15 Jul, 2020 - 06:00PM

Personally...I think it’s got to be the “chemistry” when you first meet. I’ve had some lovely interactions with guys off IE who tick all the boxes but when it comes to that first meet..it’s usually the lack of chemistry that ends it for me fairly quickly. 🙈

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1303634 - 15 Jul, 2020 - 09:52AM

It has to be a balance. Intelligence and chemistry are the big ones for me. Sex without chemistry is pretty pointless and its the hardest thing to find

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Dejavous - 14 Jul, 2020 - 11:29PM

Whilst all those traits might seem essential they are I believe superficial. What is important is finding that someone who makes you feel good about yourself without you actually knowing why.

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