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1394020 - 19 Jul, 2020 - 05:48PM

Definitely as otherwise you can “peak” too early and meet then realise you have nothing in common

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Jul, 2020 - 05:27PM

redhen2808

Nope!!!

tea_coffee_me_ - 19 Jul, 2020 - 12:03AM

" redhen2808 - . I think you can tell so quickly from message if you would indeed have a connection with someone in person. "

Disagree
I have had many great messages/conversations/even first AND second meetings only for the person to go silent or say thank you however I do not wish to continue.

So many factors involved hence it can take a while for the right people to find each other.

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995040 - 18 Jul, 2020 - 11:37PM

Not being able to meet has ended my I.E. Although we appeared to have a great connection, homeworking, inability to have phone calls and ever reducing texts showed we didnt. Fortunately a collaegue who I have had to work with during lockdown became an easy replacement for my i.e.

Plum Blonde - 18 Jul, 2020 - 11:32PM

Redhen2808...... Personally I have found that some men are indeed masters of seduction in their messages . Unfortunately it's an art crafted diligently by some masters of catfishing or fantasists who can't manage reality more often than not !

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redhen2808 - 18 Jul, 2020 - 10:25PM

Seduction is fabulous. I think you can tell so quickly from message if you would indeed have a connection with someone in person. The language they use, the style of writing - the amount of effort they put into a message. Its all about what you want out of being here - we all want something different I am sure but for me I want intoxicating excitement and that comes from stimulating my mind as well as my body!

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Robin313 - 18 Jul, 2020 - 12:19AM

I love to chat x

Robin313 - 18 Jul, 2020 - 12:18AM

Art of conversation... we are going to have to have a bit more coz normality is not coming to soon...... 😎

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Fluffy Sunshine - 17 Jul, 2020 - 11:24PM

It’s good and bad. Yes you can chat for a while, but until you meet in person you won’t know if the chemistry is there. It’s also harder to do anything secretly when working from home. There has definitely been an increase in those just seeking online thrills with no intention of a real affair.

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1128466 - 17 Jul, 2020 - 11:12PM

I am so bored with chatting I just dont bother any more

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