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1358651 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 04:26PM

There is no set rule. Ideally I would never go for sex on the first date. I had complete 2 different experiences on here!
First IE, pretended to be quite gentleman & not too touchy, well behaved on the first meet who actually celebrated my birthday! God! What people do to impress a girl and then 5 months of lockdown experience faded the attraction and he pretended to be too frustrated from his wife. So damn him!
Lucky enough, found another IE soon after, who instantly clicked with me through chats and was planned to see him outdoors with no intention to sex. But we had so much chemistry going on, atleast he has no pretend issues. Due to sudden overcrowded place,change of plan to work from hotel and ended up being intimate! But that was an amazing experience and will cherish for life! I would b totally against sex on the first meet and cannot believe I would ever do that but I m not regretting it 1 minute. It’s better than a cheater meeting u 1st time acting gentle and suddenly ignore u for no reason.

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Perfect001 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 04:01PM

I'm I being accused of 'put out ' on a first date..

I did it once and it was amazing....

Have never met another man who made me feel safe and want to do that again, and believe me, I've met a few...

Do not judge me, you weren't there and do not know the build up to the meet.

As I said I was with him for 2 yrs after that and enjoyed every single time I was with him....

So get a life and stop judging people until you know the full story....

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ExoticOrchid - 04 Aug, 2020 - 03:56PM

OrientalAngel80 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 03:25PM


OrientalAngel80 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 03:25PM
"what would they have expected if I asked for cake 🤔"

Haha yes, absolutely!
Note to Self: don't ask for cake with coffee!!! :-))

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ExoticOrchid - 04 Aug, 2020 - 03:53PM

Jade2020 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 03:24PM
" if someone wants to ‘put out’ on a first date then that’s their choice."

Indeed it is ... however, it is a different matter when the men "expect" you to do so because that's what they are used to!

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1387952 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 03:25PM

ExoticOrchid - 04 Aug, 2020 - 02:57PM
"Now I can understand why some men expect the women to "put out" on a first meet!"

Some of the guys I've had coffee with expect assistance in their cars... They'll say it happens. I tell them it may happen ehsewhere but it's not happening with me!

If that's what they expect paying for a coffee, what would they have expected if I asked for cake 🤔

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1374756 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 03:24PM

Folks we’re all adults on here... surely if someone wants to ‘put out’ on a first date then that’s their choice.., if not then that’s also their own choice... don’t think anyone on this site can judge lol

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ExoticOrchid - 04 Aug, 2020 - 02:57PM

Now I can understand why some men expect the women to "put out" on a first meet!

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MissHappyLady - 04 Aug, 2020 - 01:58PM

I don’t think I’ve really had any unconventional ones. Many blooming weird ones. The joy of dating

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Classycougar - 04 Aug, 2020 - 12:54PM

I’m always amazed to hear of people meeting for the first time and having sex😳
Maybe i’m old fashioned but i like to get to know someone and feel comfortable about my personal safety before having sex!

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Perfect001 - 04 Aug, 2020 - 12:52PM

Sooooooo once my first date was a walk around a reservoir, we had been chatting, talking on the phone even felt like we had sex on a video call......he was so sexy, just knew what to say and when to say it....
We met in the car park for the first time in real life.....we kissed for the first time in real life and my legs just went to jelly.....we walked talked and laughed.
Anyway about 45 mins into the walk we stopped and sat down on a pk bench....we kissed again and really didn't stop for about 10 mins god only knows what people would have thought but really I didn't care, I was in the moment.... behind us was a heavy wooded area with big bushes and you probably guess what happened next..... yes I did have my wicked way with him and yes he was a very special friend for 2 yrs...... it's the only time I have ever done anything like that on a first date..... but even now I remember every minute of it.....amazing.

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