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1360846 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 10:48PM

I would love to meet someone weekly too

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1332870 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 10:35PM

I see mine on average once a week either for lunch, after work date or day in a hotel. Some weeks it's twice, then the following week maybe not at all.

We don't work too far from each other which is nice

tea_coffee_me_ - 03 Aug, 2020 - 09:35PM

Well done on those finding and IE that they can see every week or twice a month, in my 'cough' time here I have never found that.

Some I have a seen once or a few times a year (they work all over the world) pre the little bug causing the destruction of economies!

Time has often been created at the beginning to build up the relationship to a certain point, then when we meet, it is as adults and we just carry on ... there IS texting, messaging and so on in between.

There are married men, available to meet, EVERY WEEK - wow!
Where?!??!?!
(Especially in this working from home, house arrest era!)

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1367876 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 09:25PM

It should be working and satisfying for both, not only for you.
I believe twice a month would be amazing. However, if they are not that great then less often would be advisable. 😊

1397273 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 09:25PM

I think that it is one of those things where as others have said...it's quality not quantity that is important and.... the regular humdrum of daily tedium is what most come to escape from and if that means one magical meetup per month and it really does mean something for both...that all good is it not?

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Dejavous - 03 Aug, 2020 - 08:18PM

Embrace it and be thankful that you have found someone who can find some time to be with you. Remember it is quality not quantity that really matters.

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1117169 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 07:55PM

@OrientalAngel

Great use of the word " Epistolary" !

Its not often you get a chance to use that!

😉

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gemini2310 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 07:49PM

I would never meet anyone just for sex no matter how many times I would meet I like a good old fashioned affair with romance nice lunch dates days out together holding hands etc making each other feel special and enjoying lovely times together

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1387952 - 03 Aug, 2020 - 07:29PM

I'm guessing frequency is really down to each individual's needs for being on IE.

My daily life is busy, if I feel I have to be glued to my phone to maintain a relationship by text/phone calls that would make it very difficult to be discreet but it also becomes too intrusive in my real life.

What happens if I'm away for a fortnight in a cottage in the woods with my family, with very little mobile coverage... A relationship that is predominantly epistolary based will fall apart for me.

In an ideal world 2 or 3 times a month for sex would be great, but reality may be once a month for sex and maybe a couple of lunch dates to keep the attraction ticking over with some communication in between meets... But I really can't be doing with "lots of phone calls and texts"!

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Polycarbonate - 03 Aug, 2020 - 07:07PM

Much can happen in a month. It's easy to lose track. One year I was convinced I was meeting a recent ie, but somehow had arranged with a new ie.

I'm fairly sure I'd forget someone's real name in betwixt. Life events have more time to occur. Miss one month and a season passes.

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