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1386735 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 02:58PM

Sportster1200L
I have tried different approaches to my profile and yes I still stand by what I say.
It’s narrowly focused because I work during the day, so no I cannot pop out during my working lunch for a quickie,
I’ve managed to have what I want in the past so it’s not impossible. I definitely see the bigger picture so there you go.
Having an airy fairy profile makes no difference to having a harsh one in my book.
If your on a site like this, then be on it for the reasons you want to be on it...which is what I’m doing.
It’s not my issue if some men on here think they can kid me and themselves

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1117169 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 02:52PM

@Suadela2020

I speak from experience and others have probably had that experience too, but it is rare.

Your profile is very narrowly focussed on sex in the evening and as you admit, its harsh. That's probably why you are having difficulties finding someone and don't appreciate the bigger picture.

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Geek0808 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 12:58PM

Just the excitement, being in lockdown for over 4 months can play tricks on the mind! Watch out.

ExoticOrchid - 18 Aug, 2020 - 12:01PM

Lust perhaps but LOVE???

Apparently it does happen but I'm too old and too cynical for it now ... perhaps I did when I was a young and innocent teenager!

Good luck to all who believe in it though.

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Cancer - 18 Aug, 2020 - 11:13AM

I had this when I was about 17 at college. Meeting a friend of a friend for the first time, such a strong attraction to him, luckily it was mutual. One of the most intense relationships I have had. Never had that strength of feeling/reaction since.

Dejavous - 18 Aug, 2020 - 10:54AM

@sportster1200L beautifully summarised, this is not a one size fits all site.

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1386735 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 10:49AM

Sportster

Really? Where are they? I’ve been here many years and I think those people are either snapped up pretty quickly or you’re talking tosh.

A man who is genuine and actually has the time to have an affair would be a good start.

Apply within if you’re out there guys

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1399985 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 10:47AM

I'm polyamorous so able to be in love with more than one person at a time, I love falling in love, never done the whole love at first sight thing though, I have definitely felt a mad passionate attraction to someone I've just met though. As for chemistry, biology, pheromones or magic, like all things in life it's a combination of those!

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Pete likes wine - 18 Aug, 2020 - 10:43AM

There is an inner biology - its called preferences if you see that what you like there is always a possible sexual attraction - oh yes had that at work ---- we didnt we both wanted to at different times - we both know we could have and both know we wanted to - and guess what we are still friends 20 years later - if we had would be friends?

Yorkman2020 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 10:27AM

@suandela2020 I’m with you post lockdown desperate for a shag

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