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Teresa di Vicenzo - 18 Aug, 2020 - 07:22PM

I don’t want to trivialise the original poster’s thoughts but I’d say it’s likely to be lust you’re feeling rather than love. The feelings are very similar!
I met someone a couple of years ago and we communicated for a month or so before actually meeting. There was instant mutual hard, physical attraction and we kissed each other’s faces off immediately. We couldn’t keep our hands off each other. It really was electric! So intense. We were both very taken aback by the intensity of both of our feelings.
Sadly the relationship soon burnt itself out in only a matter of a few months. In my opinion and experience, the faster and brighter the immediate flame is, the faster it dims and does too.
So I’d say just enjoy every second of it while it lasts. Don’t expect it to, it probably won’t, I’m not being a pessimist, just an old realist! However if it does, that’s great too!

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1327360 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 07:03PM

Love? How can you love someone you don't know? Crush, lust maybe.
Love is deeper than the desires to tear someone's clothes off and fuck the hell out of them!

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Ha1234 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 06:33PM

@Secretaccomplice4u
@Suadela2020

Think being genuine is probably like beauty....as in..... beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...... so maybe genuine may be interpreted according to what the person wants.... ie genuine may have to meet certain criteria to be considered genuine for that person.
Obviously to most genuine means being real and true. Interesting topic.

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1117169 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 06:16PM

@Suadela2020

I totally understand your time constraints, everyone has them, but I'm not suggesting that you should look for someone who shares the same lunch hour. An affair on flexitime is a ridiculous idea.

It is perfectly possible to avoid being" Harsh" without being "Airy fairy" too.

Secretaccomplice4u - 18 Aug, 2020 - 06:16PM

"A man who is genuine and actually has the time to have an affair would be a good start."

Define genuine ?
Am sure more men are genuine than women as we have to pay. its not the money but you have to make a conscious decision to do something.

Women can have multiple accounts, leave and come back or just test the water.

Time is always difficult but I think most of us will make the effort.

Apply within.

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1386735 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 05:38PM

Plum Blonde

Thank you. We shall see

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Plum Blonde - 18 Aug, 2020 - 05:25PM

I have to agree with some comments that it's more likely to have these crushes as a young teenager .Unless the connection is viable you should hope the feeling wears off ! @Suadela2020....I think it's refreshing that you are being truthful and assertive .So many men think you will slot into a convenient time window to suit them .Let's face it there some women who are so needy and want to be in demand they will write a profile as bait for attention from anyone ,youre not one of them !There are some men who like the idea of something extra but they don't exactly want to put themselves out too much .You're direct and honest .I hope you find someone worthy of you .

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Kentishprincess - 18 Aug, 2020 - 04:56PM

Love??? Mmmm I'd say it was more lust then anything..

gemini2310 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 03:47PM

Not since I was 14 and that was for my hubby to old and wise for anything like that now thankgod

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Ha1234 - 18 Aug, 2020 - 03:35PM

@Suadela2020
@Sportster1200L

Maybe evening are just better....like some like exercise in morning...some in afternoon....some in evening....... we're all different......lol