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sjc_1970 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 04:52PM

Ask them...nothing to loose and nothing to gain either. That’s how it sometimes is between me and my IE...we had a long and honest talk about it, and it turned out he’d accumulated feelings for our “relationship” and didn’t know how to tell me

1368604 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 04:49PM

Sounds like he is playing games. I wouldn't put up with that shit! This is supposed to be fun! Doesn't sound like fun to me. I had someone like that before. I decided I dont want to be ignored by my lover, my husband already does that enough! So moved on. Plenty more fish and all that! ;-)

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1386735 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 04:18PM

Real women...or maybe it’s older women 🤔 don’t do the bad boy thing. It’s just too soul destroying. Real women are confident, know what they want and want a proper man....not a bad boy

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gemini2310 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 04:07PM

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I cannot answer for all women on here but I don't like bad boys I love nice guys romantic kind and put as much effort into an affair as myself should always be contact between meets for me no contact for weeks omg the red card would be shown straight away if no respect is shown to me but all women are different

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Boatmaster - 21 Aug, 2020 - 03:54PM

Tell him what you want and how you feel.
Don’t play hard to get and if he doesn’t understand or can not accommodate your feelings walk away.

DorsetLass89 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 03:51PM

The word confront feels harsh, as he’s not really doing anything wrong...

If it bothers you, it’s up to you to share that with him. Discuss what you need from each other and if it doesn’t match, either accept it or call it a day. At least he will be in the loop.

I wouldn’t recommend playing hard to get or any kind of games - I highly doubt that is what he is doing.

Good luck though, hope you manage to get it sorted ☺️

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1117169 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 03:47PM

I thought women preferred a bit of a bad boy who always left them wanting more over a nice guy who was reliable and predictable.

That just sounds immature to me.

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gemini2310 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 03:09PM

And never chase anyone I know I wouldn't plenty more fish in the sea

gemini2310 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 03:08PM

He would be long gone if he was my IE why make excuses for him no one on here or in real life would treat me like that your both married yes but most are on here respect costs nothing don't put up with this

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1366991 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 02:56PM

I make it a rule not to chase anyone so if someone goes cold without explanation I don’t stick around.its different if there’s a valid reason but inconsistency in any friendship is a no no and a little emotionally immature. Stake your boundaries and good luck

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