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1393321 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 02:52PM

No dont play hard to get. Decide what you really what and if it is a relationship with more contact and the sexual intensity then be clear and tell him you're looking for someone with more contact, and then ditch him if he doesn't step up.

You are worth more than this. There are plenty of men on here who will match you better.

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1387952 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 02:34PM

@ Maria Jones

I love a bit of Ella but in this instance I think The Zutons says it best and sums up the majority of guys I've met

You will you won't
You do you don't
You're saying you will
But you know you won't
You may you might
Your chest gets tight
You say you love day
But you come out at night

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Gormlessoaf - 21 Aug, 2020 - 02:23PM

I've been in some big towns
And heard me some big talk
But boy when the big takings done

A man is a two faced worriesome thing
Who ll leave you to sing
The blues in the night

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Maria Jones - 21 Aug, 2020 - 02:18PM

Oriental Angel,

you're quoting Undecided by Ella Fitzgerald. It gets more poignant:

First you want to play and then it's no / And when you say you'll stay that's when you go / You're undecided now so what are you gonna do?

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Mysterious 3.0 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 02:11PM

Reading some comments below.....

Ffs.... 😵😵🤮🤮

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1387952 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 02:01PM

@ Suadela2020

Yep, been there, I know! So many guys who say they will, but they won't. Or say that they do, but they don't 😒

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1386735 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 01:56PM

OrientalAngel80

I know right.

Try finding a 3sum or 4sum, not that easy either! 🤔😊

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1387952 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 01:53PM

Reading through the below comments makes me feel like we require a degree in Psychology to get through this minefield.

Who'd have thought that finding someone you'd likd to spend time with, that you find attractive, to meet semi regularly for sex would be such a difficult task 🤦🏻‍♀️

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1386735 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 01:36PM

Buck mcFuddy
In your dreams I’m sure

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1323236 - 21 Aug, 2020 - 01:12PM

Most boys are insecure ar....es. trust me, I have being there and done that. Fundamentally driving force that drives male behaviour is purely biological necessity to get rid of sperm and the most effective way to pass genes is to cower as many females. Females relay on the strongest support from the partner as during the pregnancy she is very vulnerable. Read profiles and you will see that I am right.

If you want to keep that dude, do not nag. But give him a challenge, do not starve him but make him work for it. No one appreciate things that come easy.

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