Communication
I have just started seeing a new IE - how often should I message her inbetween meets? Any advice would be appreciated
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Paula99 - 04 Jan, 2024 - 03:38PM
HS…
If you message her a lot less than you specified… it also means that you are not in this for the duration and I like a guy that makes an effort ..😉
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marklondonengland - 04 Jan, 2024 - 11:55AM
This post is headlined "communication" ... why not start by communicating with your IE? First thing to check is which channel is safe, which times are safe, and then you can ask if he/she prefers you to remain fairly quiet or is happy to chat... This shouldn't even be a question in a debate as it is different for every couple!
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1639646 - 04 Jan, 2024 - 10:39AM
Whatever works for the two of you.
You'll find a natural rhythm between each other. Stop overthinking and relax into it.
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Andrea Andrew - 04 Jan, 2024 - 10:28AM
24 ….7!
or
Build up the tension between chats…..
Depends …. I prefer the latter….. sometimes!
LadyDe - 04 Jan, 2024 - 10:02AM
This is tricky I try to be lead by them.. some find it easier in the day but then they’re trying to work… some in the evenings but equally other half’s might wonder why on phone all night …
Yep just ask them what works but you’ll get into a flow as you know them anyway…
Personally I like it, it builds anticipation, intrigue and want !
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Lucky7s - 04 Jan, 2024 - 09:40AM
If it was me, I would discuss this with her and get a plan together of good times to message and times to completely avoid. From experience, messages at certain times could be a complete no go and ruin things before it even gets started. Good luck 🤞🏼
1586130 - 04 Jan, 2024 - 12:59AM
You should message her a lot less often than she messages you. Clingy guys never last.
1640227 - 29 Dec, 2023 - 08:43PM
OFFS
1635363 - 27 Dec, 2023 - 11:38PM
A good morning and good night let’s them know that you are thinking of them and any other snippets throughout your day
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