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Doricles - 27 Dec, 2023 - 10:03PM

Fluffy Clouds

I read your profile and your words echo much of what I wrote. Great minds and all that 😉 x

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FluffyClouds - 27 Dec, 2023 - 05:27PM

Doricles -

I agree there needs to be a chemistry on initial first messages plus on the first meet to create that buzz.

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Doricles - 27 Dec, 2023 - 12:34PM

The frequency and length of messages exchanged at the start of a new relationship is influenced by many factors, but in my experience, if the chemistry is there, and an immediate connection is formed, both parties will feel the buzz and they’ll crave constant contact with each other. We all know why we’re here and the prospect of a new illicit encounter (or a first one) raises expectations and drives both parties in a burgeoning relationship to find ways to communicate as often as their particular circumstances allow. It’s all part and parcel of embarking on something new and exciting: a chance for both parties to feel wanted and alive again!

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Andrea Andrew - 26 Dec, 2023 - 11:25PM

Just go with the flow…… play it by ear!

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Tinkercat - 26 Dec, 2023 - 08:14PM

I’d expect an open communication about this and an agreement between the two people; so perhaps have that chat together. Personally, I love the thrill of getting a message and checking in with my IE but I guess for me it’s because I’d prefer to be developing a relationship as a one off not with a series of different people. Communication is key for me.

Partner in Crime - 26 Dec, 2023 - 07:02PM

Even a 'good morning!' is appreciated. I know that it's not an official relationship but it's nice to know you're in their thoughts. It's something I try to do when I'm in an IE type relationship....it's just a nice thing to do.

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1622605 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 06:54PM

Hi All.,communication is hard to right when you are trying to connect wirh someone .I suppose try a couple of exchanges to try to understand actually what being said . It's nor like if your single and reply at will be patient and wait for the right one you are looking for

Enigma.. - 26 Dec, 2023 - 04:48PM

Pmsl… @Kwg14

I’ve had messages from males on here that were definitely not meant for me 🙄😂😏.

Same reaction… bye, bye 👋🏻

Kwgt14 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 01:40PM

Its not just men whosend message to the wrong person.

I got a message saying thanks for flowers

I replied saying... i didnt send thrm... good bye. 😀

bobloblaw10 - 26 Dec, 2023 - 01:38PM

I like talking. I really miss that having recently had something come to an end. I think it's important! As long as it's understood that real life sometimes means you can't be messaging constantly then it's all good.