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1403402 - 20 Jan, 2021 - 09:03AM

...WaveyDavey probably speaks for a lot of us...?

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WaveyDavey1956 - 17 Jan, 2021 - 10:25PM

I'm in sexless marriage. I don't want to leave, but I'm not ready to give up on sex either. I'm looking for an affair, just to feel my body against a woman again and in remind me what it feels like to desire and be desired.

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Borderline847 - 14 Jan, 2021 - 12:19AM

When my husband puts me down regarding my weight and looks I just have to have a little snigger to myself and think if only he knew!!!!

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1423946 - 13 Jan, 2021 - 02:04PM

i can relate to that 100%, i know im older than most people on here but my wife is a lot younger than myself, being intermate seems to have become a thing of the past for us hence why i'm on here, but you have to try and lift yourself up and carry on im sure there is someone there for you, in many cases it's a case of keep trying and be patient, don't let them grind you down

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RealAffair - 12 Jan, 2021 - 09:14PM

It's a really easy trap to fall down, when your partner doesn't want you anymore, to conclude that you're undesirable. However their lack of interest is more likely about them than you.

I'm assuming anyone on here is missing the physical side in addition to anything else they're missing. So at least you can expect there to be a physical side to a relationship you strike up here. That will make most people start to gain a sense of desirability.

However we should remember self esteem is what it says on the tin. "Self." That means you. Self esteem is something you give yourself. You can't get it from someone else.

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1392431 - 12 Jan, 2021 - 09:00PM

My husband stopped being interested in me at 38 and after a couple of years of feeling like I must be very unattractive despite working out and looking after myself I was so relieved to meet my last IE who instantly made me feel attractive again. I can’t tell you how good it felt to be wanted again !

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Chezley - 12 Jan, 2021 - 04:32PM

The fact is one partner will wish to end sex before the other. This is not always coordinated or convenient . But it is just a fact of nature. Realise and accept this asap. Then work out your own new sex life.

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Doc Johnson - 12 Jan, 2021 - 02:49PM

I totally relate to that. Not being desired messes with you right to the very core of your being. You cannot rationalise and you cannot convince yourself that you are attractive when the truth is you are, there is someone out there for everyone. The French have it sussed as flirting is a national pastime. I wish it was here too as it would be a great help for me.

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daddydoms - 12 Jan, 2021 - 02:15PM

to feeling unappreciated and unheard, entirely. i think i’ll reclaim mine in 2025 and make my next wait until marriage and see how bad she really wants to be perfect good little daddy’s girl. where does your loyalty lie.?

1430688 - 12 Jan, 2021 - 12:01PM

reclaiming my sexual sovereignty sound great ,cant wait to get started in 2021