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Gallowglass666 - 04 Jun, 2021 - 10:58AM

Surely it would be polite to get a reply to a message, even if it is 'no, thank you'. It would also be polite after several messages and losing interest to tell the person rather than 'ghosting' them. Either of these solves the problem, and days of no contact (people have lives!) simply have no deep meaning other than that the person is busy.

My guess would be a preponderance of women just here for online fun, ego boosting and no real intention of ever meeting, and some men who like to keep several 'strings' going, again, an ego boost.

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1447655 - 29 May, 2021 - 10:04PM

Can someone please just come over and take my god damn phone off me?! I'm awful for making contact, and I want to at least try to be cool and aloof!

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1117169 - 29 May, 2021 - 08:16PM

@ good.things

There definitely are genuine women on here. Persevere. You will soon be able to discern who they are and separate the wheat from the chaff.

Don't come across as too keen though. Women hate that until later on, when they will expect it!

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1453959 - 24 May, 2021 - 10:18PM

Ha. I'm just over the moon when I actually get a response. As a shortie and a sentimental, I'm probably in the wrong place, so when a message comes in I rather pitifully and shamelessly pounce on it and, when the trail goes quickly cold, I just have to do my best to shrug it off. There may be some genuine women here, but I don't feel I've stuck gold yet. I think sometimes the ability to hide behind a screen has the effect of dissipating any sense that there's a real human being at the other end of a conversation.

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Realhousewife20 - 09 May, 2021 - 11:37AM

Relaxed vibes- I’m still in contact with my previous IEs and I speak to one of those constantly throughout the day via text sending memes etc. My current IE doesn’t have access to his phone during the day due to work so can only message before and after work! So at a minimum we message once a day, depending on how much he can access his phone may be 4-5 messages a day. This is fine for me as the fewer messages are really long ones and cover everything rather than back and forth texting all day!

Relaxed Vibes - 09 May, 2021 - 12:17AM

Realhousewife20

I still speak with previous paramours more often than that! I am a complete chatterbox though!

Realhousewife20 - 08 May, 2021 - 11:44PM

My current IE and myself message at least once a day now, just a couple of catch up messages on what we have been up to that day etc. We try and have a FaceTime at least once a week and tend to meet up once a fortnight.

Plumberdave - 08 May, 2021 - 08:32PM

I have the same problem. I message everyday if I can sometimes go days without a reply then I get well thought you had lost interest ! Some I ask for passwords say we have already swopped but havnt if you are not interested it’s better to just say sorry not for me than leave people in limbo

1386735 - 08 May, 2021 - 10:44AM

Sigma

You’re really not coming across as a catch! Plus your ego re the flipping 11.
🙄 seriously

1449716 - 07 May, 2021 - 10:51PM

Sigmaguy , yep heed your own advice , a hot mess , is still a mess ?. Keep your willy in yer pants and use yer brain x