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24ct Collar - 22 Apr, 2021 - 07:15PM

Depends on the fling. I’ve had long term flings when I’ve had no contact for months then got back in contact again and had daily messages. Had an encounter and left saying “see you next time” and it weeks or months again. Others have been multiple messages and conversations a day. Others weekly. All depends really

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1448631 - 22 Apr, 2021 - 09:34AM

If you are having a full blown affair one would expect daily contact if only by messages

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Maria Jones - 21 Apr, 2021 - 11:07PM

i like a message every day but understand if that doesnt or cant happen. holidays for example can be difficult to manage

1422646 - 21 Apr, 2021 - 01:23PM

Daily.
No excuse for less than this.
I am out of the affair hunting, but I can guarantee to you that if a man is interested, he will contact you frequently.
I am not talking about the cases where you are years together but at least at the start is a bit odd not to.

At least it wouldn't do for me.
I need to have a very strong bond feel sexually attracted to someone.

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1447499 - 21 Apr, 2021 - 10:18AM

As a few have mentioned before me, this seems to be dependent on a lot of factors - especially given our unique circumstances for being here but I think if you hear nothing from an IE then leave it until they contact you (no one needs a 'bunny boiler' do they, and I think I'd be a little concerned if I had to stay off line for a while to come back and find a string of 'why won't you talk to me' type messages from someone)
Maybe also consider not getting too excited too soon at the start of a 'relationship' and then ascertain how much emotional currency you want to spend as things develop?

Just hypothesising here, and my views are my own but happy to debate.....

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1449137 - 20 Apr, 2021 - 06:57PM

Its a big pond, if you dont hear back after several days they have very likely moved on which is why there is nothing wrong with chatting more than one person at a time. You will just know when the spark is there and she is really interested.

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funseeker63 - 17 Apr, 2021 - 09:48AM

Communication is essential....& as ive only just signed up for a 3 week trial😊😁😜😜....i need as many Kent/Essex girls to message me as poss!....but seriously....its just good manners & curtious to at least read & reply to any messages youve received ,even if its a "jog on,your not my type" one 😁

MatureWorcsBBW - 16 Apr, 2021 - 05:39PM

I'm not much for texting.
I'd expect several real phone calls per week.

I know we're not all the same but I want to hear a real voice not read text.

1444413 - 10 Apr, 2021 - 11:51PM

Always important it's easy to just say hello even if it's just one word

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Milkomilko - 10 Apr, 2021 - 10:34PM

Hi I’d just like someone to contact me