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Keeping in contact

How often do you exchange texts/messages  with your IE? Sometimes can go days without a reply, is this normal? Can't help but think they have lost interest or am I being sensitive?

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ExoticOrchid - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:29AM

DG - 11:15AM

Totally agree.

(I'm still surprised by how many men here lack the cajones and just 👻!)

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ExoticOrchid - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:26AM

R1990 - 10:58AM

Honey, there is no 100% guarantee in life ... be prepared to take some risks in life ... there are genuine people here as well as scammers ... that's just the way the cookie crumbles ... just keep your wits about you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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1529050 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:15AM

I am happy with some contact - I do not expect daily messages (yes lovely if we can but no drama if it does not happen). I def do not need a daily Good Morning or Good night message.

It is annoying if you ask a question and get a reply 3 days later - but hey it is life.

I think there definitely has to be contact in between meets. If I guy drops off contact and it goes for days or weeks then it is bye - I am patient but even I have limits and I would rather a guy had the balls to say it is over than ghost...

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Rjrj1990 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 10:58AM

No connections as of yet because I'm hesitant to pay for a potential scam service. Who can vouch for the reliability of this site?


logicboy - 17 Oct, 2023 - 10:25AM

My last comment does t seem to ha e made it through the ether. I must've mentioned the unmentionable! 🤣

I tend to feel guilty if I don't reply to a question or do t say good night to indicate I'm going to bed and won't be replying. I've come across all sorts of different behaviours in others including plenty of ghosting unfortunately. 👻😿


1401293 - 14 Aug, 2021 - 05:06PM

I think regardless of the home situation, everyone is capable of sending at least one message a day....even if it's done whilst on the loo!
Seriously....if they are interested, they will text

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Funseekingsean - 18 Jun, 2021 - 01:11AM

Can’t say as of yet just joined so no connections yet but I suppose I would say whatever is agreeable between both people, a quick connection daily would be nice to receive once there’s no pressure after all aren’t we all here for different reasons yet also to have fun


lonely_lovely - 17 Jun, 2021 - 11:32PM

Every day if he wants to keep me!


1317379 - 10 Jun, 2021 - 07:46PM

Once a week is enough quite frankly, don't act too keen


1455445 - 07 Jun, 2021 - 11:46AM

My previous I.e
We'd meet weekly, but contact every other day or sometimes late at night. It would depend on his work and when the wife was around.
If the pattern of someone changes with no explanation. I found they are losing interest.

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