Keeping in contact
How often do you exchange texts/messages with your IE? Sometimes can go days without a reply, is this normal? Can't help but think they have lost interest or am I being sensitive?
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ExoticOrchid - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:29AM
DG - 11:15AM
Totally agree.
(I'm still surprised by how many men here lack the cajones and just 👻!)
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ExoticOrchid - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:26AM
R1990 - 10:58AM
Honey, there is no 100% guarantee in life ... be prepared to take some risks in life ... there are genuine people here as well as scammers ... that's just the way the cookie crumbles ... just keep your wits about you. 🤷🏻♀️
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1529050 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 11:15AM
I am happy with some contact - I do not expect daily messages (yes lovely if we can but no drama if it does not happen). I def do not need a daily Good Morning or Good night message.
It is annoying if you ask a question and get a reply 3 days later - but hey it is life.
I think there definitely has to be contact in between meets. If I guy drops off contact and it goes for days or weeks then it is bye - I am patient but even I have limits and I would rather a guy had the balls to say it is over than ghost...
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Rjrj1990 - 17 Oct, 2023 - 10:58AM
No connections as of yet because I'm hesitant to pay for a potential scam service. Who can vouch for the reliability of this site?
logicboy - 17 Oct, 2023 - 10:25AM
My last comment does t seem to ha e made it through the ether. I must've mentioned the unmentionable! 🤣
I tend to feel guilty if I don't reply to a question or do t say good night to indicate I'm going to bed and won't be replying. I've come across all sorts of different behaviours in others including plenty of ghosting unfortunately. 👻😿
1401293 - 14 Aug, 2021 - 05:06PM
I think regardless of the home situation, everyone is capable of sending at least one message a day....even if it's done whilst on the loo!
Seriously....if they are interested, they will text
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Funseekingsean - 18 Jun, 2021 - 01:11AM
Can’t say as of yet just joined so no connections yet but I suppose I would say whatever is agreeable between both people, a quick connection daily would be nice to receive once there’s no pressure after all aren’t we all here for different reasons yet also to have fun
1317379 - 10 Jun, 2021 - 07:46PM
Once a week is enough quite frankly, don't act too keen
1455445 - 07 Jun, 2021 - 11:46AM
My previous I.e
We'd meet weekly, but contact every other day or sometimes late at night. It would depend on his work and when the wife was around.
If the pattern of someone changes with no explanation. I found they are losing interest.
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