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squashed2 - 05 Oct, 2021 - 07:48AM

In my experience it's always the man who makes the booking, whether that be for day use or overnight. Make sure the hotel has a cancellation policy, unless you are one hundred percent sure your partner will not cry off. You learn the hard way..

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Betelgeuse - 05 Oct, 2021 - 06:44AM

Dayuse. I'm happy to pay for room - at least to start with......

Peaches1 - 04 Oct, 2021 - 11:52PM

Samiradaisy - 04 Oct, 2021 - 09:15PM

I'm curious as to know why you think it's a man's responsibility to pay for the hotel. Isn't this a joint thing?

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1461780 - 04 Oct, 2021 - 09:15PM

I would definitely want the man to pay for hotel rooms. Thanks for the tip about dayuse. I would pay for other things like meals, snacks etc. Maybe buy gifts. Don’t mind the money being equal but it’s the symbolism of the room, should be something the man attends to and provides.

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Clangerb1505 - 04 Oct, 2021 - 04:12PM

Dayrooms work really well.. just pay on an internet credit card that doesn’t produce a paper statement or use a prepaid card you can load with cash..

Letsdothisnowok? - 25 Sep, 2021 - 11:00PM

I'm happy to pay for the hotel for the right woman. May be I'm old school but obviously it has to be a hotel that the girl is happy with.Ideally some distance from where we both live. Personally I'd prefer to do breakfast, lunch or afternoon drinks with her beforehand and to discuss what we're going to do, flirt madly ? However, sometimes time precludes such meetings. PS new to IE but not to an illicit encounter, its week 1 on here so I have no experience yet of this !

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newguy970 - 25 Sep, 2021 - 10:51PM

HI there are a couple of sites with names like dayrooms which let good hotels for mornings or afternoons , a quick google search should find them

1117169 - 25 Sep, 2021 - 03:42PM

@ ClassyLady77

A hooker that pays for her client! That's a new one!

The other side of the coin is that men who are expected to pay for everything even though their partner is quite capable of sharing the cost often feel as though they are paying for a hooker.

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ClassyLady77 - 25 Sep, 2021 - 10:17AM

Wow hotlips. Im amazed he lasted 2 years… 🤦‍♀️ Sure he wasn’t my hubby 😂 I

Dayuse.com is good

I want a man to pay. I did it myself once and hated it. Felt like a hooker. I vowed . never again.. I do offer to pay half. If a man wants me they can put money where mouth is.. I pay for everything with hubby don’t need that from a lover

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Hotlipsz - 25 Sep, 2021 - 06:28AM

I recommend Dayuse.com or Daybreak Hotels.

For my safety I prefer to book the hotels but I expect the guy to chip in or even suggest it. I had an affair with a guy for almost two years (we didn't meet via this site btw) and I paid for every single booking, even paid for his lunch. A bottle of wine or a box of chocolates would have been nice every now and then.

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