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Raisondetre - 31 Aug, 2021 - 11:08AM

@Chezley

I can assure you that there's nothing more unsexy and offputting than a tight man! The lady (I would say most ladies) want to be spoiled where their husbands don't.

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Chezley - 31 Aug, 2021 - 10:38AM

Raisondetre

What would the alternative cost? Assuming we rendezvous at your sparsely furnished, and little provisioned work abode. A good deal less than the outing to a hotel.

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Raisondetre - 30 Aug, 2021 - 02:20PM

@Dayuse

I couldn't agree with you more. Well said.

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Dayuse - 30 Aug, 2021 - 12:53PM

If you want to have an affair then be prepared to pay for the privilege of a beautiful woman’s attention.

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971869 - 30 Aug, 2021 - 10:48AM

I always paid for the hotel, and lunch.

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1466684 - 30 Aug, 2021 - 09:30AM

I believe that there could be lots of things to be considered, so an open conversation is a must.
Would the man paying make his lady feel pressured
Joint accounts make things difficult for some - shows on statements
Different choices in hotel quality- is it just a comfortable bed or are the surroundings important
Overnight or afternoon of passion, how do you feel about checking out during the evening
Even checking in together can cause embarrassment for some
Just some thoughts…if you are really serious discuss it

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Raisondetre - 29 Aug, 2021 - 09:47PM

That's probably why youre still looking. Darlin'

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1117169 - 29 Aug, 2021 - 06:19PM

@Raisondetre

If the guy pays for the hotel he is paying for sex. If the cost of the hotel is split, he isn't. Don't you get that?

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Raisondetre - 29 Aug, 2021 - 10:02AM

To be honest I think the men should pay for the hotel. Lets face it..you're getting the sex for free. What would the alternative cost you?!

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Peaches1 - 28 Aug, 2021 - 08:04AM

As an independent women I prefer to go 50/50 or take it in turns to pay as I wouldn't feel comfortable with a man paying for everything. Unless of course he was a millionaire, then he's got more money than I'll ever have haha. I'm not into flashy Rolex wearing people who drive a Ferrari so doubt that will ever happen like.

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