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1683831 - 01 Jul, 2024 - 09:44PM

Totally agree, personal hygiene should be the number 1 priority for people looking for someone.

1678165 - 09 Jun, 2024 - 11:05AM

Over promise and under deliver, don’t paint a picture only to turn up looking like a cheap knock off, and wipe your nose.

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Prof Sarah Beauchamp - 04 Jun, 2024 - 11:28AM

If a man can't manage personal grooming then it is a definite NO from me.

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kscv2-303 - 26 May, 2024 - 09:13PM

Agreed with this. Especially here where the physical attractiveness and intimacy you're looking for is front and center. If it's within your control and you're not addressing it, I assume you either have no respect for your date or you have so little understanding, that you didn't even think of sorting something that is reasonably easy to fix.

Can also be that someone doesn't have a sense of pride or simply doesn't care. None of the above reflect well. Some men don't even realise how much of a deal it can be. (We all make assumptions about people based on details...)

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TheSaint65 - 26 May, 2024 - 11:42AM

I am extremely woke!

TheSaint65 - 26 May, 2024 - 11:41AM

I prefer a lady without tattoos ,piercings everywhere, more ironworks than the forth bridge,
dont want to be walking down the street with someone that looks like Darth Maul.

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boav91 - 26 May, 2024 - 07:56AM

Looking good and personal grooming is important. I cannot do anything about the fact my hair is not as thick as it was in my 20’s but I do try to look after myself and keep my short beard trimmed, nails cut and teeth and breath all smelling nice. This for most you hope will be intimate and you want it to be nice with you partner. My ie and I both look after ourselves so we both get the benefit too of that extra time spent. It is not hard come on, make an effort. My experience is it is worth it

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EbonyDesires - 26 May, 2024 - 07:27AM

Problem being for some I guess: say they are a builder. Always rough and ready and wife accepts it. Any sudden deviation from that norm will have their wife on high alert.

So I guess for those in that situation, they have to be honest on their profile and pics. So nothing else is expected.

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Life is a beach - 25 May, 2024 - 11:20PM

I agree with you Gunther.
Cleanliness is next to Godliness.
I have always looked after myself. I feel it's very important to always look good regardless of IE.
Men and women, don't wait for a date to look good. It's so important that you are well groomed. It will not only make you feel better about yourself but will also increase your chances.
I look after myself whether meeting my IE or not! I think everyone should.

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1660660 - 25 May, 2024 - 06:11PM

I am scrupulously clean. Even when not meeting a partner, I do my best to be clean and smell great. This gives one confidence in all aspects of life. Sometimes, during certain tasks one might get very sweaty. If I was meeting someone afterwards (for anything) rather than going back home, I would shower first.
I think it is common courtesy for both men and women to have some basic hygiene which includes washing ALL potentially smelly parts and appropriate care for nails and hair.
If people have skin issues or hairy ears and noses, maybe they need to think of that before looking for an IE🤣
Genital and pubic topiary is a preference. I have enjoyed full bush to fully shaved. I have been fully shaved to completely natural. Clean and no stubble is the best guidance. Hair there or not is up to the person on whom the hair is growing. Be confident enough to show it off whatever it is. I want it to be enjoyable by all my senses, and not offensive to any- especially my sense of smell.

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