Inopportune encounters
I had the oddest IE experience at the weekend.
There I was in Chester Tesco, not where I normally hang out, and as I looked up from my Dairy Lea multipack I saw this rather attractive woman who I couldn't quite place. We looked across aisle 17 and both of us recognised something about the other. Of course, I eventually realised we'd spent some time getting to know one another on IE and by this time she'd gone.
It left me curious whether anyone else had bumped into an IE at an inopportune moment?
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J1on1d - 16 Jan, 2023 - 10:08PM
LG
I obviously didn’t put that across well. it was not a criticism of what you said, I was commenting on the fact that you understood his backstory and therefore why he would be on here.
All I was saying was that It doesn’t really matter about the backstory because whatever reason people are here for, not many people would be too bothered to know. So even if one came across somebody one knew but didn’t understand why they were here, they have a reason and so for many on here, it is not relevant.
I thought your point highlighted something interesting.
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1483842 - 16 Jan, 2023 - 04:40PM
Lorelai Gilmore - 13 Jan, 2023 - 03:17PM
Sex and caring
Sex and talking
Sex and having fun
Sex and going for walks
Sex and dancing
Sex and going for a meal
Sex and few drinks
Sex and going to a concert
Sex and exclusivity
Sex and non exclusivity
Sex and phone sex
Sex and messaging
Sex and museums/galleries
Sex and emotional support
Sex and financial support
Sex and sex and sex....
...one common thread darling 💋
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1447655 - 13 Jan, 2023 - 03:17PM
Jon1d - he didn't tell me. I knew because I know the family and could understand why he needed an escape. We are all here for different reasons, sure enough.
As for a lover not being a therapy service, I suppose that depends on your relationship and how close you are. This isn't directed at you, Its a general comment, I get tired of people saying on here "we are all here for the same reasons". Actually, no we aren't. There's a frigging multitude of different types of relationships within this thing.
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J1on1d - 13 Jan, 2023 - 02:11PM
LG - Even if the back story was not understandable it is not like you could comment or say anything as everybody has different reasons for being on here and as has been said before by many - nobody wants to hear the back story and the reasons why your IE is on here, this is not a therapy service (well not that kind anyway 😀)
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1529050 - 13 Jan, 2023 - 07:55AM
Lorelai Gilmore - 12 Jan, 2023 - 09:26PM
O wow ! Hugely difficult situation for you.
Touch wood …. So far I’ve never known anyone I’ve chatted to. But as you say be on high alert before just giving it out ….
1447655 - 12 Jan, 2023 - 09:26PM
D.G
Not best, but probably oldest. Infact, grew up together and regard her more like family. However, I knew the circumstances/backstory and I completely understood. Very difficult situation. Xxx
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1529050 - 12 Jan, 2023 - 08:16PM
Lorelai Gilmore - 12 Jan, 2023 - 07:29PM
Woah …. Too too close to home eh !!!! Esp the best friend’s’ husband ….
I guess it depends where you live and the radius etc … London is much easier I guess as I def steer clear of anyone from my neck of the woods - most people I’ve been involved with live opposite side of London or with the Home Counties and commute. Also I always check what they do for a living …. And if remotely connected to what I do it’s a no, as it’s not a huge pond.
Whilst I like a fairly early exchange of PW … I need to be 💯 sure we don’t have any connections.
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1447655 - 12 Jan, 2023 - 07:29PM
I've had that moment when talking to members in the past where i realised their kids go to my school. Had to cease talking when I clocked it and luckily hadnt given my p.w out. I couldn't contemplate anyone anywhere near local because of this issue. Not a problem now as my I.E lives miles and miles away, which can be hard, but it does have its plus points.
I also had the unnerving experience of finding I was talking to one of my oldest friends husbands. Also an instant cease and desist moment - for him also. You have to be careful and not give your password out willy nilly!
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Cheesypuff - 12 Jan, 2023 - 07:26PM
Fluffy Sunshine - 12 Jan, 2023 - 07:48AM
How is your sister keeping, I do hope she is well?
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