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1542317 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 07:11PM

@Bobb

Have you not noticed yet, it’s literally only the same handful of ladies on the forum, trying to impress them is very low on my to do list

1542317 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 06:17PM

And here comes my stalker

I can always hear your footsteps…..

Who bloody couldn’t 😂

Bobb20 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 06:13PM

Blueboy

If you can only see doom in your life, then you have no hope!

You cannot change the fact women get more messages, so what’s the point in crying over it!

So, you have three genuine options:
1. Go and set up your own dating website that somehow attracts far more women than men (you’ll make a fortune and get the pick of women to boot - all of the men on here would be impressed with your success and women would fall at your feet)
2. Go and join another website that you think gives you better odds
3. Get on with it, and try to find a positive (which is the option I have chosen

Of course the 4th option is to moan and complian that life is not fair - which you seem be doing here - now I’m not a women, but I doubt many will find that an attractive trait.

The (male) crowd shout - go for option 1 !!!

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Paula99 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 06:02PM

Blueboy1981

What makes you think Bobb20 is being dishonest?...he is entitled to his opinion as you are...

Just because he doesn't share your dreams doesn't mean he can't have his own..

You are being honest and so is he..

The only rubbish here is the gobshite that comes from your mouth...🤭

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1542317 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 05:15PM

Bobb, no offence but you are talking rubbish

You honestly think having too many messages is a problem.?

Come on, the old nice guy act is getting very boring now

So are you saying you really prefer getting next to no messages or reply’s in favour of having your pick of any lady you want??

Say what you want about me, but at least I’m being honest on here

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Bobb20 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 04:18PM

Look on the bright side of life!

There are upsides and downsides to every situation.

As a guy, I could say women have it rough by getting so many messages (if this is true, and women really are inundated) - it means they have to spend a large amount of time sorting though, and will have to carefully sift the wheat from the chaff, for they may otherwise pick wrong, or may indeed miss a golden nugget. They also have to deal with either ignoring guys messaging, or ‘disappointing’ them! And some guys may not take this too well and unfortunately see it as rejection!

So chaps, would you really want that?

If you are a guy, be thankful, rather than complain (it is what is it and we have a bright side). Also gives you time to read through female profiles, and select carefully who you wish to contact, plus tweak your own profile if it doesn’t quite reflect you or sell your strengths well enough.

Good luck whichever side of the fence you are, to men or women :-)

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Skype2u - 20 Sep, 2022 - 02:50PM

I noticed something.

Why girls flying so higher..
Dont get...

1529050 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 10:57AM

Fuzzy and Blueboy

It really does depend who you connect with. Some of us ladies do respond and do not ghost and do go out and meet guys and have had success - and not always with guys 6ft and above.

It does work - it may take time - but give it a chance.

I am not excusing rudeness - and I have always made the effort to respond to message there would have to be a very good reason that I did not. Ladies also do get ignored and yes ghosted ... We are not all the same and I cannot comment how other women behave and obv we are not all looking for the same thing.

I feel we all here to take the chance and unless you actually meet - what is the point of being here .......

achilliesj - 19 Sep, 2022 - 11:12PM

Aye - all this pent up frustration needs unloading!

1542317 - 19 Sep, 2022 - 09:14PM

@fuzzy

I’ll get in before the forum witches get in

It’s an extremely challenging place for guys, you will need to accept that your messages will get ignored a lot, if & when you get chatting to someone it’s highly likely they will just ghost you out of nowhere

That’s not to say you won’t or can’t meet anyone, just be prepared to have your patience tested a lot

Put whatever you want in your profile as it will make no difference either way to the outcome, most ladies here are very unrealistic, so just be you and if you are not over 6ft…. Pray you grow a few inches over night

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