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1703219 - 05 Sep, 2024 - 10:02PM

Connection for me is a sense of relaxation when we communicate, a sense of being on the same page. And the willingness to explore differences as opposed to ghosting.

marklondonengland - 02 Sep, 2024 - 07:46PM

This contradicts some other messages here that ask about 'you're great' messages... it is possible to develop a good connection with someone when messaging. You can get to the point where you are looking forward to checking for new messages and it is an exciting way to build a bond together. I have usually found that if someone is interesting when messaging and can keep a conversation flowing, then they will be interesting in person. It's not 100% foolproof, but this is usually true, so it can be possible to build a genuine connection even before meeting in person... in fact, isn't it important to do so, or would you arrange to meet someone who had only sent a message saying 'you're great!'

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Imnotthemessiah - 01 Sep, 2024 - 10:26PM

Real connection is that flutter in your chest you get when you look in your IE’s eyes and see the spark of passion reflected back to you.

Stevestovil - 31 Aug, 2024 - 10:18PM

I think we are all multi dimensional. The challenge here is we select through the single dimensions of words and pictures. If you have a deficiency in one of those areas then it does how desirable you are in the multi dimensional real life. I have had 2 successful meetings through here leading to passionate encounters. Neither asked to see a picture first, where I am asked for a flat 2D representation of the complex 3D me, I am never selected.

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1671533 - 31 Aug, 2024 - 08:55AM

I struggle to express myself online. That doesn't mean I can't write a coherent sentence - it means it takes a lot of effort and time to do so. So for me, making a 'connection' will only come from talking to one another on the phone.

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Unwoke! - 31 Aug, 2024 - 08:42AM

What is love? How long is a piece of string? Does my bum look big in this?

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jc1551756 - 31 Aug, 2024 - 08:40AM

I think you can start to build a connection through chat and messages. If the conversation flows freely along with the flirting then it’s a start. I think the connection builds as you go along and hopefully builds further when you meet.

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1575033 - 24 Nov, 2023 - 05:12PM

In this context it means justification to continue

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Paula99 - 08 Nov, 2023 - 06:59AM

Cheesy…

Bob’s your uncle …Fanny’s your aunt and Dick is your best mate 😉

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1494077 - 07 Nov, 2023 - 10:40PM

Profile searches really isn’t rocket science 😉

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