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1645560 - 31 Jan, 2024 - 09:05PM

@Hedone
You are welcome to disagree its ok its just chat.
It might seem pointless but for me its just general courtesy. Would you ever give access to your pics first?

Delicious Chaos - 31 Jan, 2024 - 08:34PM

Blessed T
Sorry I have to disagree with you. If he sends his password and he’s not for me I will say so. Why would I then send my password when I have no intention of taking it further with said person. I really don’t get the show me yours and I’ll show you mine, it’s a pointless exercise if one of you says no.

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ExoticOrchid - 31 Jan, 2024 - 08:29PM

MEM - 07:44PM

Excuse me?

I'm "answering" the OP's question ... have you actually read what the OP has written?

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1645560 - 31 Jan, 2024 - 07:53PM

I think worse than rejection are the people that say, give me your pwd and promise they'll give you theirs. Then don't and just ghost you, thats beyond rude but at least exposes their awful personality quickly I guess.

IE should invest some effort and have a joint reveal. Where you both tick a box and then you can access each others pictures with a simple yes/no continue chat option. Would make everything a lot more simpler and maybe reduce the dong pic farmers.

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1614937 - 31 Jan, 2024 - 07:44PM

ExoticOrchid - 31 Jan, 2024 - 06:26PM

Are you saying that you should always judge a book by its cover? I guess you're including the precis on the back cover, too... Surely, that way lies disappointment.

1636787 - 31 Jan, 2024 - 07:11PM

Well I think there's honest rude and honest polite..
I've had both.
I prefer honest polite
Or being told I'm far too old..😁

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ExoticOrchid - 31 Jan, 2024 - 06:26PM

That's why it's important to exchange pics ASAP ... if youve been messaging for quite a while before you "see" each other, it can be more difficult to to give/receive rejection.

Treat people how you'd like to be treated so courtesy and kindness will go a long way.

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Paula99 - 31 Jan, 2024 - 04:46PM

It’s good to be civilised…

But …not everyone can be…we have all been rejected but we can’t let it rule our lives ..😁

Delicious Chaos - 31 Jan, 2024 - 04:39PM

You just have to be brutally honest and tell them. People need a thick skin to be here so be honest, they’ll get over it.

1628078 - 31 Jan, 2024 - 03:59PM

I appreciate straight up honesty if someone is not attracted to me. It might be a bit of a downer hearing but it’s best . Sex is the most powerful energy on this dimension and to reach bliss energies must be vibrating at the same level .