How much is too much?
Does anyone else find it drags you down when you are chatting to someone, it's going well, and then they commence to dump their emotional baggage onto you? Complaining about their life choices, their wife/husband, their problems at home, why their partner isn't giving them sex, their kids, their relatives? Particularly when you've not even met? Turn off?
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leggysheila - 24 Feb, 2024 - 04:55PM
Leave the emotional baggage at home your here to get laid XXX
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1651227 - 24 Feb, 2024 - 12:50PM
To my mind, there's a difference between dumping your emotional baggage (which is a no no for me, it's just whinging, basically) and sharing how you feel about things that matter to you (which is fine, in fact I like it).
Emphasis on the word 'sharing' there, I think, communication is a two way street. I find people who talk but don't listen a total turn off. Heh, I'm listening...
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Japnee - 24 Feb, 2024 - 08:31AM
Yes personal problems aren’t really my thing and don’t like talking about them to anyone. Conversations usually end up diverting into arguments about topics we barely know anything about
Doctor13702 - 22 Feb, 2024 - 02:08PM
When I have been with someone for a while it's natural that talk of their family life enters into the conversation.
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Bellab50 - 20 Feb, 2024 - 11:45PM
I thought the whole idea of being here is to escape your normal life, just enjoy and have fun,
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Marlen - 20 Feb, 2024 - 11:12PM
Sometimes sharing 'emotional baggage' can help you see the other person, in reality, not perfection. We all have some. It may help you reflect on your own and maybe, bring you closer together. It isn't about whining, but can give greater context as to why you're here and maybe worth getting together.
Or it could be a sophisticated game play, for a male player to get inside someone's knickers quicker, by playing to a lady's caring and nurturing side, working her maternal instincts, which might override her other more cautious instincts.
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Club 18-30 rep - 20 Feb, 2024 - 10:45PM
I’m guessing most here will have emotional baggage but I suppose we are all here to release from that although I do find sometimes listening to others allows for more understanding between both parties.
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Pink Eiga - 20 Feb, 2024 - 09:39PM
Everybody has a degree of baggage, and some might be shared, as a passing point of disclosure. Saying that, there aren’t enough hours in my day to entertain any more than cursory info from a stranger that I have never met. There are professionally trained people out there who are paid to do a good listening job. Use them.
If a person has that much emotional and mental baggage, should they even be on IE? It seems hardly fair to inflict themselves on people who have come here for a bit of positive fun and frolics.
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