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Noisemaker - 03 May, 2024 - 09:21AM

Enigma

How would you overhaul this.

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Enigma.. - 03 May, 2024 - 06:36AM

Hope Springs 24

That’s it in a nutshell.
Unfortunately due to the time wasters, players and double dippers (yawns) the decent, genuine males are falling by the wayside.
Unfortunately being tarred by the same brush.
Methinks it’s time for an overhaul… lol 😉😏.
Or at least a massive clear out 😝😉😏💋

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1642853 - 02 May, 2024 - 01:06PM

There was once a guy from here who had this unhealthy pattern with me of intensively message for days, amazing connection. He'd make a date to meet me and like clockwork a few days later delete me. He deleted me one Christmas day, infact. It drove me twisty, but it was quite fascinating too. He must have had rubber balls as he always bounced back. Eventually he ghosted me without ever having met, probably too ashamed for yet another apology.

For some the 'illicit encounter' is talking to someone else on line, or they don't have the time/capacity to move it off their phone and into real life (timewasters). Plus, on-line sex/sexting has become so rife that the impetus for intimacy for these people is reduced without ever having to leave their couch.

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Enigma.. - 02 May, 2024 - 09:49AM

Peaches Legs&Eyes

Me too…
I sit there laughing, shaking my head and wonder when are they “finally” going to realise that they’ve blocked me.
The 12th of never is my guess lol.
Eejits as we say in Scotland/Ireland 😂😉😝🙄🤷🏼‍♀️

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Legs&Eyes - 02 May, 2024 - 09:08AM

Peaches

YES! Agree with all that - and there are 2 guys who repeatedly pop up and message me month in month out - and they’ve blocked me so I can’t reply 🤣 clearly I’ve never blocked them - and they can’t work out why I’m ‘ignoring’ them….

Guys - if a lady you previously chatted to is now ‘ignoring’ you - make sure it’s not cos you blocked her months ago so it’s a fruitless task now messaging her! 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

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1596886 - 02 May, 2024 - 07:57AM

I think it’s fair to say that the experience for men and women alike I can be less than satisfactory but that’s because we are dealing with HUMAN BEINGS all of whom have free will, different moods and get nervous sometimes.

Neither gender knows what is it is like for the other, this is true of real life and here on IE.

Can’t we all just get along?

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Enigma.. - 02 May, 2024 - 07:36AM

There are A LOT of time wasters on here.
I know for a fact that I’m not the only one on this site that has now set a time limit.
If in, say, 3/4 weeks we have not moved our conversations from the site onto telegram, WhatsApp etc…
Had at least a couple of phone calls.
Started to arrange a meet or have not met?
I’ll mark you down as a time waster and move on.
Yes… I understand that “real life” can be busy with family, friends, work, hobbies and other commitments.
But ask yourselves this….
Why pay to be on the site if you don’t have the time for an affair, have no intentions of meeting up or are having feelings of doubt and guilt over having an affair.
Not only are you wasting your own money but you are wasting your own time and females time on the site.
Which means you will probably end getting blocked or ghosted.
Trust me… I am speaking as a female who is getting more than fed up with time wasters.
Personally I wish there was a red button I could push to report time wasters 😏

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blodynpert - 01 May, 2024 - 10:21PM

Or those that chat to you for weeks, saying yeah, I want to meet...
Then you ask to set a date and they say they'd rather work on their marriages/relationships and they realise they can't do the whole affair thing. I think both men and women fantasie about what it would be like to have an affair, but when push comes to shove, they get cold feet!

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Pink Eiga - 01 May, 2024 - 10:18PM

Peaches1 - 01 May, 2024 - 09:57PM

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Women definitely do not have it easy, contrary to what men think. The pool may be wide, but the water is shallow.

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Peaches1 - 01 May, 2024 - 09:57PM

Men think women have it easy on here and we really dont. In the last 7 days I've chatted to a a few men. One asked me 3 times when we could meet and everytime I've told him and he changed the subject. Another, arranged to meet on specific day then disappeared. Another hasnt replied as I couldnt do the day he specified due to work commitments. Chatted to one this evening who called me arrogant because I didnt fancy him from his pics and I've got one who messages me every other day on here but I cant reply cause hes blocked me for whatever reason 😂 Men what are you paying for if you cant play the game 🙄

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