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I was chatting with a friend about how we all should come up with a fun, low-key way to signal...

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Older Women...

Why, if I’m contacted by a much younger man, I feel like I’m just a novelty to...

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How important is a good profile name and photo..?

Have you dismissed a potential IE on the basis of a terrible user name and
a profile...

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All people cheat, sooner or later

Do more people cheat, or have we always looked for extracurricular relationships? I know most of...

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Age

What do you think of dating someone older/younger on the site?  I'm in my mid thirties...

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Profile Suggestions?

Tips or ways to improve your profile? What makes a profile stand out from the crowd? How personal...

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Take things slowly?

I'm a female and have been on a lot of meets during the time I have spent on this...

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Distance and how to get a reply?

I live in the far tip of Cornwall
Tried every website and app known to man for the last 4...

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Am I just being over sensitive or is this acceptable?

OK I've met a few people from this site and one recently who appears really nice and genuine....

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Would you date someone new to having an affair?

Would you consider having an affair with someone who has never had an affair before? Or do you...

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Tattoos - Yes or no ?

What are your thoughts on tattoos? Do you like them or loathe them? Do you find them sexy? Would...

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What was the thing that triggered you to have an affair?

I know we all have our own reasons for being here but what makes someone have an affair. For some...

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