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Onekissmore - 11 Jan, 2024 - 04:18AM

To feel alive.
To be seen.
To laugh.
To talk.
Hopefully for great, passionate, adventurous love making.

Paula99 - 26 Oct, 2023 - 04:30PM

takimedir…

Reading your post makes me think of one thing …

.have cake and eat it ..🙄

Everyone is here for different reasons but some of us have no intimacy/sex…I hear ya it’s the same thing but some seem to think they are more ‘entitled’

Sound Guy - 26 Oct, 2023 - 04:06PM

For me, after 12 years of no intimacy/sex at all and a couple of serious conversations following her menopause I decided to have a look on here at what might be available as it's definitely never happening again at home. Everything else about our marriage is great but I so, so miss being desired, spending time with someone who wants to touch me and wants me to touch them.

If she's told me honestly that she no longer has any interest physically, and I wouldn't want her to pretend, is it cheating? I see from these comments that both men and women are in the same situation.

takidemir - 26 Oct, 2023 - 09:17AM

I can have sex at home, I can have intimacy at home but I want more. So I came on ie to hopefully find a mental and physical connection where we both want intimacy with each other. I'm searching for that woman who desires me, seduces my mind as well as my body, satisfies me both sexually and by keeping my mind engaged even when we aren't physically together. And in return I will give her what she needs and wants.
Just gotta find her now. with my respects. medenitaki

takidemir - 26 Oct, 2023 - 09:10AM

because we want different tastes...and different coulours...

1629944 - 26 Oct, 2023 - 12:18AM

Well, I hate it when I talk about that at home and my husband always says that a woman is cheating as she is seeking love, while a man is cheating for sex!
Fuck, that's not true at all!!! At least not in my case.
I'm here because I want to feel special, pampered, and have amazing sex! Not seeking for any love! Just good old fun! 🤣

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1240952 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 04:05PM

Is it cheating, though, if one party wants sexual intimacy but the other doesn't? Why should one party be denied and labelled as a cheat because they need that in their lives. I have found that my spouse doesn't understand and thinks you should just become celibate because that's what she wants. The alternative is divorce but if everything else is acceptable why should that be the only alternative?

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marklondonengland - 25 Oct, 2023 - 02:39PM

Why would it be different just based on being a man or a woman? There are many reasons why someone seeks attention elsewhere and that applies to both men and women...

1489235 - 25 Oct, 2023 - 12:03PM

For me it is to provide that buzz in my life. Home is loving, caring, secure but no longer physical. The classic platonic that just misses one thing.
That tingle you get on the first date, after the flirting by message and call. Dressing up in my best sexy gear, the looks when I walk in the bar. All very much turns me on. The lovemaking with no boundaries.
It's not cheating (he knows) its satisfaction!

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Cheesypuff - 24 Oct, 2023 - 07:16PM

Because I ran out of socks