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Why do we want to have an affair?

Why men cheat VS why women cheat... discuss!

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1371726 - 13 May, 2020 - 03:36PM

@sugarsweet I am all for novelty and adventure


1376072 - 13 May, 2020 - 03:03PM

Hello x


Jonessk75 - 13 May, 2020 - 02:34PM

Desire and loving that sparkle of the first flirts through to more and more and more.....

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1272141 - 13 May, 2020 - 02:34PM

So in general we all do it for personal requirements. But so far there is nowt that makes it distinctly gender based.

Somehow I think that will be unconfirmed. Its a bit like asking folk to have and be more than they are or can offer.

However there are swingers who can deliberately use their partners to find additional sex partners. So you might find yourself being passed onto the spouse who is more than bi curious.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 13 May, 2020 - 02:25PM

Men mostly want the sex they're not getting at home.
Maybe if they offered her indoors the kind of sex SHE wants, they would get more.
Just a thought.

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Oldgroovy - 13 May, 2020 - 01:58PM

It is also dependent one ones age. For the more mature it is a case of catching up on opportunities that were not possible in ones youth. Society was much more controlled in the early post war days.

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Steve276 - 13 May, 2020 - 01:54PM

The thrill of being wanted, found attractive and sexy, it's at the root of us all

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stevegates2012 - 13 May, 2020 - 01:41PM

Sex is an opportunity to let go, have fun, relive your youth or just to have that physical connection that no longer exists. It can be within a currant relationship with a extra ( man ) or if you can find that extra woman.

All relationships seek escape. To talk, exchange woes, find a solution to a problem. To be on the same planet, reasons are many. To find someone who understands or is at least willing to listen. To enjoy Sex with some new with or with out consent can be fun and exciting, some like to watch, some enjoy sharing, some just like to talk about it.

We are here each and everyone of us, whatever your persuasion. If you find someone who fills that void then it makes life more bearable without the risk of losing so much more, yourself!!

Life is a risk, enjoy it, it's yours!! Find the answer by talking first with the one you with then if not seek out side.

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Lillib - 13 May, 2020 - 01:32PM

@sugarissweet
Well said


TheSpartanLife - 13 May, 2020 - 01:25PM

Everyone has their own reasons, but what seems to be a common trend is the desire / excitement of having another sexual partner, also living with one person for a number of years - one may begin to tire from having the same discussions / sex so may decide to explore and start talking / getting to know to someone else. I guess it's a grass is greener on the other side kind of thing..We humans are hard to keep satisfied and we like trying new things, especially if there is pleasure involved..

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