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What is the expectation of the hotel bill for a date with your IE?
Is the male who pays for it or the ladies usually go Dutch?

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1601621 - 13 Oct, 2023 - 04:27PM

I usually find that it is the male who is expected to pay for it. Even though there is so much focus on equality in society nowadays, when it comes to freebies, lots of women go backwards. I don't think they realise that this hurts their cause as how can men think of them equally when they take every opportunity not to be equal!

If they want to be considered equal, they should pay half, then they will have the respect of the man. That should go without saying.

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1628746 - 13 Oct, 2023 - 11:11AM

It's the male who should always pay. It's the gentlemanly thing to do.

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RULucky - 12 Oct, 2023 - 10:23PM

You buy them online its not difficult, they even arrive in discrete packaging on a day of your choosing or get them from Amazon delivered to a locker and collect.


VesselB - 12 Oct, 2023 - 05:35PM

Definitely 💯 % Happy to pay, it’s a gentlemen thing to do! I know this might sound a bit off but the thing is I am embarrassed to buy condoms! I’d be happy if I’d be offered a condom 😂

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dem112 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 02:11PM

I personally wouldn't want the lady to pay for any bills, I must admit using a really posh hotel I would be mindful of what the receptionist would think if just using the room for just the afternoon

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Lbgood11 - 04 Oct, 2023 - 06:36AM

I was happy to take it in turns as I took am very independent. But maybe sitting back and being treated would be nice.

That said in hindsight his efforr was the cheapest hotel whereas I used to pick and pay for nicer.

Should have seen the red flags a mile off that we were after different experiences maybe. I wanted time away from reality and his choices upon reflection screamed quickie.

Didnt feel like it at the time as I was just swept up in the fun of it all.

I hopefully have learnt for next time, if there is one. I am certainly being more selective who I speak to this time around.

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1408586 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 06:37PM

Very 😉

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Ricky67999 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 03:53PM

If my hubby got me that I doubt I’d be on here!!!

I literally love all the sets on there … I love gorgeous lingerie 😈😈

Yeah becks … catsuits 😈😈

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Ricky67999 - 03 Oct, 2023 - 03:53PM

Dotty Green - Honey Birdette is sensational. Bought a matching set for my wife’s birthday one year - children walked in as she was unwrapping and holding it up to the light 😳 …that was awkward - just as well she kept my favourite flavoured lube in the bag 😂

BeckySharp - Catsuit ? Please tell us more…

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Boudicca - 03 Oct, 2023 - 02:15PM

I think it should be halved, as that’s fair.
I did have an affair with a guy who never even let me buy a drink the entire time we were together, I struggled with that as I am very independent.

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